Thank you for taking the time to write a review.  I would not be able to comment on individual circumstances on this forum, but I am happy to meet with you should you wish to do so.  We keep comprehensive care records, which record things like refusal to eat and drink, as this is very common on an end of life pathway and I am sure that we will be able to show you things you would not have observed which took place outside of your visits.  Please do feel free to get in touch so that I may put your mind at ease.