
The house is clean, homely and is well run. The staff are friendly and professional.P H(Daughter of Resident/Service User)



The house is clean, homely and is well run. The staff are friendly and professional.P H(Daughter of Resident/Service User)



Three Oaks is a family-owned care home, renowned for its beautiful grounds and freshly-cooked food. With eighteen bedrooms, it's the perfect size to offer a variety of spaces and activities while keeping a homely atmosphere. Set in the Hampshire countryside, it is just minutes from the M27 and from the busy village of Wickham.
The home specialises in providing care for people who are mentally alert but need some support and...
Care Provided by Three Oaks
Primary Care Categories
- Older Person Care
- Dementia
Length of Stay
- Permanent Care
- Respite Care
Care Types Provided
- Residential Care
- Dementia Residential Care
- For a maximum of 20 Service Users
Dementia Care TypesMild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
Mild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
- Mild Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
Other Care Provided
- Day Care
Facilities
- Own Furniture if required
- Pet Friendly (or by arrangement)
- Smoking not permitted
- Close to Local shops
- Near Public Transport
- Stairlift
- Wheelchair Access
- Gardens
- Phone Point in own room
- Television point in own room
Funding & Fees
Weekly Charges per Person
The price(s) shown are provided by the care home. Contact Three Oaks for full pricing details and T&Cs.
Contact Three Oaks to confirm what's included and get a personalised quote:
Funding Types Accepted
- Self-Funding (Private)
- Local Authority with Top-up
- Local Authority
- NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)
Good to Know
Group / Owner
- Nick Hawkins
- Private Owned
Person in charge
- Stacey Searle(Manager)
Local Authority / Social Services
Admission Information
- Ages 65+
Care Home Design/Build
- Purpose Built: No
Room Information
- Single Rooms (16)
- Couples/Companion Rooms (2)
Visiting
- The home invite visitors to their home anytime
Parking
- Free on site parking
Three Oaks Reviews (31)
Three Oaks has a Review Score of 9.2 (9.229) out of 10, based on 5 reviews in the last 2 years.
Over all time Three Oaks has 31 reviews.
Although she initially felt rather overwhelmed, saying that she would perhaps prefer not to see us, a member of staff gently suggested that we waited five minutes. She brought my stepmother in to us a short time later, and spent a very happy hour and a half with our relative.
An hour into our visit, the member of staff brought the Home pet Rabbit to us for a little pet. We were offered cold drinks, more biscuits, and the conservatory door was opened to make us more comfortable as the temperature has been rising.
She was so helpful, kind, professional, and friendly. We can't praise her enough.
Happy and reassured that my stepmother is looked after extremely well and is safe and comfortable in the homes environment.
Thank you.
Mum has been at Three Oaks for nearly two years now and is thriving in the professional, caring environment of this lovely care home. She is happy and cared for and everyone goes above and beyond in meeting her individual needs and making us feel welcomed and supported as a family. I have complete peace of mind that they always act in her best interests and cannot thank everyone enough for what they do.
The residents are all so well cared for and the staffs dedication is admirable & and,second to none. I have visited a few care homes which don't come up to the standards of 3 Oaks ,it is by far a class of its own ,which is down to the way it's run and the staff. Well done and thanks to everyone.
My Mum has resided at 3 Oaks now, for nearly 10 years. Despite the medical challenges she has faced, I feel she is happier there than ever. The dedication and hard work of the manager, deputy manager and their team, is second to none. Always willing to help and support, you with any concerns and offer sound and experienced advice if asked for it. The warm welcome on arrival, when the door is opened, is like visiting family and this reflects in the overall atmosphere of the home...welcoming and happy.Am eternally grateful, that my Mum herself chose this home...its a real "gem".
We found Three Oaks one day whilst passing by in the car. We thought this could be Mum's new home. We visited the home that day. The inside was so warm and inviting, there was even a large pond with all sorts of wildlife, plus the available room we viewed for Mum was fabulous! My mum loved it. She has been with Three Oaks now for a few months and has settled in quite well this is all due to the wonderful people looking after her. We cannot fault how caring, patient and diligent the staff are with her. We often hear of people going the extra mile, these people run a marathon on a daily basis. They treat her with total respect not a number, but a human being with feelings. They ensure she eats well, the home-cooked food is terrific, her food allergies are monitored and her welfare and health issues are reviewed daily. The brilliant manager has the home running in ship shape and Bristol fashion, which is why, along with her fabulous crew Three Oaks deserves such a high grade rating.
From the very first time I visited my friend, I knew she would be well cared for at Three Oaks. The staff and management are simply amazing, caring and professional. If it was up to me, I couldn't have found a better care home for her. Three Oaks definitely has a family feel to it and I felt welcome from the first visit. All the staff and management work so hard to make sure the residents are well cared for. I can't thank them enough for all their hard work.
Everyone is always very helpful, considerate and kind. We are always told if there are any problems and kept up to date and informed if there is difficulty. There is a lovely family atmosphere when we come in which makes it feel more like home to the residents.
I was therefore delighted to find Three Oaks when looking for a care home for my father.
Three Oaks is a homely care home, all of the staff I have met are caring and kind and seem to know how to handle clients with dementia/confusion.
Dad is clean and tidy when I visit and the staff have learnt his ways and the best way to handle him.
The meals provided look appetising, my father certainly enjoys them.
There are activities, such as chair exercises, that I have seen Dad get enjoyment from.
The management is professional and approachable, communication is good.
Dad has settled in well in a very short time and I put this down, mainly, to the good care that he is having.
I would not hesitate to recommend Three Oaks to someone who was looking for care for a relative.
This was me in October - living 4000 miles away and knowing it was time.
Fortunately I found Three Oaks North Boarhunt - 1st meeting with the manager and another member of staff I felt at ease and could see my mum being in a good space here.
Now three months in and I am so pleased that it's working so well - the whole team truly care and do their utmost to do their best for the resident. It's important that compassion and personal care are utmost.
I have every faith in Three Oaks and have enjoyed a wonderful Christmas party for the residents - where families became friends and all sharing the common theme that we are in a good place.
Thank you to all the wonderful staff.
I've noticed staff are very patient with the residents who are often confused and restless and soon calm them down.
I haven't tried their meals, although I have been offered them, but the cooking always smells lovely.
The home has a cosy and relaxed atmosphere. A home from home.
My father-in-law has been cared for here for the last 18 months. Other places we looked at seemed very corporate, but Three Oaks has much more of a homely feel. The staff here are so friendly and caring; they go the extra mile to really understand the needs of each resident. A lovely location in the summer with a large garden and friendly ducks.
The Staff are really kind, helpful and personable. The person in care I support can be challenging at times and the staff deal with these challenges brilliantly. The feedback from the person in care is that activities could be better and often seem a bit childish for their liking. Food is home cooked, well designed and uses local produce.
My father had been in hospital and then rehab for over 3 months prior to the family and social services eventually and reluctantly coming to the conclusion that he really had no option other than to live in a care home. The search for a home was difficult as so many homes were either small and not that pleasant or large and impersonal. When we came across Three Oaks we instantly liked the homely atmosphere and friendly and attentive staff as well as the clearly very well-managed home. The management are very responsive to any enquiries or requests and the staff have always treated my father with respect and assisted with his every need over the past more than a year. He has settled in well and I believe likes the home and has made it very clear he does not want to move to any other care home, which I think says a lot about the care he receives. There are lovely areas for residents to relax and additionally, the conservatory is great in the sunshine looking onto the fantastic garden.
My mother has settled really well into her comfortable room, she is happy and eating healthily instead of snacking or missing meals. She also now has friends and a social life!
Thank you for all you do for Mum.
Three Oaks could not be better it is in my opinion brilliant.
My 93-year-old mother has been a resident at Three Oaks Care Home since October 2022. As it became obvious that she could no longer look after herself at home, I embarked on a search of care homes in the Fareham area, and visited six of them. Three Oaks came head and shoulders above the others because of the amazing location, the smaller number of residents and the wonderful, caring management and staff. Initially, Mum was located upstairs, but was moved downstairs when she started to experience difficulties using the stairlift. Since moving into the home, she has declined both physically and mentally, but is settled and eats well. It is a relief for me to know that she is being so well looked after.
My now 100-year-old mother has been at Three Oaks Care Home for five months now and is very happy there whereas before she was in her own flat with carers coming in twice a day. She now gets the support she needs 24 hours a day and, most of all, company along with regular food (which is excellent) and it's peace of mind for me, her son, and the rest of the family that she's well looked after.
Care staff are attentive, compassionate and understanding of the needs of my mother.
I spend a whole day at the care home every two weeks. The staff never give the impression anything is too much trouble. They deal with the transition between leaving a house to settling in at the home with sensitivity and compassion. The care and time they give my dad and step mum makes them feel cared for. I hope I would receive the same care when my time comes.
Regulatory Rating
Care Quality Commission (CQC) Rating
Date: 22 March 2019Good
- CaringGood
- EffectiveGood
- ResponsiveGood
- SafeGood
- Well-ledRequires improvement
Inspection ratings
We rate most services according to how safe, effective, caring, responsive and well-led they are, using four levels:
- Outstanding - The service is performing exceptionally well.
- Good - The service is performing well and meeting our expectations.
- Requires Improvement - The service isn't performing as well as it should and we have told the service how it must improve.
- Inadequate - The service is performing badly and we've taken action against the person or organisation that runs it.
- Not rated - we have not yet rated this area of the service, this is normally because the assessments we have carried out have been focused on other key questions.
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Stacey has wide-ranging experience in social care, having started her career with us. Since then she has amassed a wealth of knowledge in other settings but rejoined us in 2019 to fulfill her long-standing ambition to manage Three Oaks.

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Frequently Asked Questions about Three Oaks
What types of Care is Three Oaks registered for?
Older Person Care, Dementia are the registered (by the Care Quality Commission) categories of Care.
How many Rooms does Three Oaks have?
There are 16 Single Rooms and 2 Couples/Companion Rooms.
What are the Facilities & Services at Three Oaks?
Own Furniture if required, Pet Friendly (or by arrangement), Smoking not permitted, Close to Local shops, Near Public Transport, Stairlift, Wheelchair Access, Gardens, Phone Point in own room, Television point in own room are some of the Facilities & Services.
How far is Three Oaks to the centre of Fareham?
3.2 mile(s) as the crow flies, distance by road may be significantly further.
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