
The house is clean, homely and is well run. The staff are friendly and professional.P H(Daughter of Resident/Service User)



The house is clean, homely and is well run. The staff are friendly and professional.P H(Daughter of Resident/Service User)



Three Oaks is a family-owned care home, renowned for its beautiful grounds and freshly-cooked food. With eighteen bedrooms, it's the perfect size to offer a variety of spaces and activities while keeping a homely atmosphere. Set in the Hampshire countryside, it is just minutes from the M27 and from the busy village of Wickham.
The home specialises in providing care for people who are mentally alert but need some support and...
Care Provided by Three Oaks
Primary Care Categories
- Older Person Care
- Dementia
Length of Stay
- Permanent Care
- Respite Care
Care Types Provided
- Residential Care
- Dementia Residential Care
- For a maximum of 20 Service Users
Dementia Care TypesMild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
Mild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
- Mild Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
Other Care Provided
- Day Care
Facilities
- Own Furniture if required
- Pet Friendly (or by arrangement)
- Smoking not permitted
- Close to Local shops
- Near Public Transport
- Stairlift
- Wheelchair Access
- Gardens
- Phone Point in own room
- Television point in own room
Funding & Fees
Weekly Charges per Person
The price(s) shown are provided by the care home. Contact Three Oaks for full pricing details and T&Cs.
Contact Three Oaks to confirm what's included and get a personalised quote:
Funding Types Accepted
- Self-Funding (Private)
- Local Authority with Top-up
- Local Authority
- NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)
Good to Know
Group / Owner
- Nick Hawkins
- Private Owned
Person in charge
- Stacey Searle(Manager)
Local Authority / Social Services
Admission Information
- Ages 65+
Care Home Design/Build
- Purpose Built: No
Room Information
- Single Rooms (16)
- Couples/Companion Rooms (2)
Visiting
- The home invite visitors to their home anytime
Parking
- Free on site parking
Three Oaks Reviews (31)
Three Oaks has a Review Score of 9.2 (9.229) out of 10, based on 5 reviews in the last 2 years.
Over all time Three Oaks has 31 reviews.
My grandmother has been at Three Oaks for nearly eight years. She is comfortable and enjoys the company and care of the staff. Personally, I find the staff very communicative and supportive. I know Grandma particularly enjoys the cheesecake.
My mum has been happy at the Home. The food is very good and also the care. The staff treat her with dignity and kindness and always make me welcome when I visit.
The quality of care that Nan has received has been second to none. The staff know the residents inside out and genuinely care about them as individuals along with their families. The surroundings are lovely, and a variety of activities are arranged for the residents. I cannot recommend Three Oaks highly enough.
We have been very happy as a family with the way my mum has been cared for at Three Oaks. My dad also was here for the last year of his life. The staff are so kind and caring. Both of my parents have told me how kind the staff are, and that "nothing is too much trouble for them", which is so lovely and very reassuring. I feel like the Three Oaks are like an extension of our family and support us too. We could not wish for better care for Mum.
There is always an air of friendliness when I visit. The residents are happy to chat with one another, particularly when positively occupied (when Covid allows). I am impressed with the staff who deal with issues in a calm and cheerful manner. Three Oaks is just right for my mum.
Our friend has been at Three Oaks for a number of years ow. Her room is a nice size and has a lovely view. She is very happy there. The staff are very friendly; make us very welcoming. The residents are well taken care of. The meals sound and smell really lovely. It seems a real comfortable place. In the summertime, they have beautiful grounds (which are well kept) where we can sit when we visit.
The team at Three Oaks have been wonderful looking after our Mother over the last few months in particular, when she has had various physical and mental health issues and have been very supportive of my siblings and I. Taking into consideration the additional stress they have been under dealing with the Covid-19 situation I think they have been exemplary.
In my opinion, my mother is well cared for and receives excellent attention to her dementia needs. She is always clean and tidy and appears to be happy in the surroundings of the care home. The staff are very attentive and give kindness effortlessly. The visiting arrangements through the pandemic have been very good with the provision of the screened room. This has been well managed, and I think my mother benefits from seeing visitors without masks or PPE.
The staff at Three Oaks are always friendly and seem to genuinely care for the residents. Mum is very happy. The lockdown has been a challenge, but the visiting room has made a big difference in being able to see Mum without a mask, albeit through a screen. I love that this is a small home with a family feel.
When I could visit inside the home, prior to the advent of Covid 19, the atmosphere was always friendly, and the staff made sure that the residents were happy and well looked after.
When my mother required residential care it was important that the home would meet all of my mother's needs. I have visited many times and never have I seen anything untoward. The house is clean, homely and is well run. The staff are friendly and professional. The food is excellent. Day services second to none. How lucky are we that our mother is well cared for.
Regulatory Rating
Care Quality Commission (CQC) Rating
Date: 22 March 2019Good
- CaringGood
- EffectiveGood
- ResponsiveGood
- SafeGood
- Well-ledRequires improvement
Inspection ratings
We rate most services according to how safe, effective, caring, responsive and well-led they are, using four levels:
- Outstanding - The service is performing exceptionally well.
- Good - The service is performing well and meeting our expectations.
- Requires Improvement - The service isn't performing as well as it should and we have told the service how it must improve.
- Inadequate - The service is performing badly and we've taken action against the person or organisation that runs it.
- Not rated - we have not yet rated this area of the service, this is normally because the assessments we have carried out have been focused on other key questions.
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Stacey has wide-ranging experience in social care, having started her career with us. Since then she has amassed a wealth of knowledge in other settings but rejoined us in 2019 to fulfill her long-standing ambition to manage Three Oaks.

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