"It was a very difficult decision putting my mum into care, I had looked after her since Lockdown and could no longer cope as her altzeimers…"
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from £1,200 / week
27 Rooms
Location Type
Care Home
Oakdale is a delightful home in Benfleet, Essex providing care and support for up to 27 older people with or without dementia.
The home is conveniently located close to the local town with good ...
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Abode Care Homes Reviews in Essex (110)
9.8
Abode Care Homes has a Group Review Score of 9.8 (9.801) out of 10. The Group Review Score is calculated using the average from all locations with a Review Score, and in addition 75%+ of all locations belonging to Abode Care Homes must have a Review Score.
from Jackie W (Daughter of Resident) published on 10 March 2026
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
My Mum has been in Oakdale for almost 2 years and our family are very happy with the way she has been looked after in there.
My Dad has also now become a resident here too, which is confirmation of our satisfaction of this Carehome.
When we visit we are treated as family or old friends by all of the
staff, they are very respectful.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you so much for your lovely words, its a pleasure to look after both Mum and Dad, you are an amazingly supportive family.
from mitchell s (Son of Resident) published on 6 March 2026
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
It was a very difficult decision putting my mum into care, I had looked after her since Lockdown and could no longer cope as her altzeimers got increasingly worse. With the help of my family we found Oakdale and have been relieved and pleased that she has settled in well and is being well cared for
by all the staff. Many thanks to all the team for their professionalism, dedication and wonderful work they all do.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you so very much for your kinds words means a lot
from Russell S (Son of Resident) published on 3 March 2026
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
The staff are great very friendly and caring my mum is cared for very well great facilities nice and clean am always updated as to what is going on very happy that I feel my mum is well looked after they have a lot of activities for everyone to join in
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you for your kind words, it means a lot to the whole team.
from Amanda B (Daughter of Resident) published on 2 March 2026
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
My father has been staying at this care home for some time now, and as a family, we couldn't be more grateful for the care he receives. From the very beginning, the staff have been kind, compassionate, and incredibly attentive.
Every member of the team treats my father with dignity and respect. They
take the time to get to know him as a person - his preferences, his routines, It's clear that they genuinely care, and that means everything to us.
The communication with our family has also been excellent. We're always kept informed, and any questions or concerns are handled quickly and professionally. It gives us real peace of mind knowing he is in such capable and caring hands.
The home itself is warm, welcoming, and always clean, creating a comfortable and safe environment. Most importantly, my father feels happy and secure there - and that speaks volumes.
Thank you to the entire team for the wonderful work you do every day.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you so much for your lovely words, it means a lot to the whole team.
from H C (Daughter of Resident) published on 26 February 2026
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
I have found all staff very friendly and attentive to my mum, I put my mum in for rest bite one day a month . My mum has dementia and altzeimers she seems to relax when in the home , at first she was very nervous but now seems to recognise the building.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you for your kind words, and thank you for choosing Oakdale.
from Lorna G (Daughter of Resident) published on 26 February 2026
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
My dad has lived at Oakdale for six years now and I am so pleased he is there. From the moment I first visited and spoke with Melanie I knew dad would be well cared for and happy. The staff are amazing and work very hard, nothing seems to be too much trouble. His care and medical needs have increased
over the years but this has not been a problem for Oakdale. The food is good and there's plenty of it, his room is clean and tidy and dad is always well dressed.
The best part of Oakdale is that it's a real family. The residents are happy, visitors always welcome and management very helpful and knowledgeable. Oakdale has not only looked after my dad but have helped me through tough times with dad.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you for your lovely words, we are so lucky that you both are part of our Family.
from Jon G (Son of Resident) published on 23 February 2026
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
We moved Mum here a year ago from another home she had been in for 3 years. We searched and visited many back in 2022 but somehow Oakdale slipped through the net or she would have been here 4 years ago. We cant fault it one jot and would highly recommend it.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank u so much Jon for your kind words myself and the team really appreciate your feedback and support.
from J W (Daughter of Resident) published on 20 February 2026
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
I've always found the staff and managers at Oakdale to be caring, professional and open to discussing mum's care.
They work hard to tailor their care to what my mum wanted and to accommodate her medical needs.
All of mum's visitors are always welcomed warmly by the team. I am confident my mum is well
cared for and Oakdale seems a happy place
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Operations manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you so much for your kind words they are very much appreciated, we continue to strive for a real family feel here at Oakdale.
from Tracey T (Daughter of Resident) published on 22 December 2025
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
Earlier this year, my brother, sister and I arranged respite care at Oakdale for our mum, Sally. Mum was there for eight weeks and was looked after very well. The food was plentiful and there were indoor and outdoor activities for the residents. The staff are lovely (and some have been there for
years, which speaks volumes). Oakdale has a very 'family' feel to it and we were always made to feel very welcome when visiting. I wouldn't hesitate in recommending Oakdale to others.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Operations manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you so very much for your kind words, we are a real family, and will always strive for perfection in whatever we do. i will share with the team your comments this means a lot to us.
from R M (Goddaughter of Resident) published on 18 November 2025
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Overall Experience4.0 out of 5
The care home are welcoming, caring, friendly and informative, nothing is too much trouble. From day 1 I felt like I knew them all well as they appear like one 'big family'. Its nice to see the same people consistently. Residents are treated with respect and dignity.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you for your kind words, it means a lot to the whole team.
from C S (Goddaughter of Resident) published on 14 November 2025
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
My godmother fell and shattered her shoulder. As she lives alone, she needed care and rehab to get her back on her feet. The staff have been friendly and kind, and nothing is too much trouble for them. They have been assisting her by doing her personal care in a respectful manner. They have been helping
her to keep mobile by taking her for walks down the corridor. The room is quite small but ok. The meals are generally ok, but not like home cooked food. She has been well cared for, and I can see her getting brighter and stronger. To need someone to care for her, this place has been amazing.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank u so very much for your kind words, at Oakdale we strive for a real family feel and are happy to receive your review of our home Mel xx
from J H (Respite Resident) assisted by family/friend published on 14 November 2025
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
It was a refuge when needed. I live alone and fell and shattered my right shoulder in 4 places and also broke my wrist. I've been unable to look after myself and have come in for respite and rehab. The care has been good and staff have been kind & considerate. They are helping me to keep mobile with
the intention of getting home again.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you for your lovely words, and for choosing Oakdale, its a pleasure to have you here and to support you.
from Carole H (Daughter of Resident) published on 29 October 2025
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
I really recommend Oakdale Care Home. Staff and management are all approachable and caring to relatives as well as being very kind and caring to the residents. Staff have so much patience and genuinely care about the residents. Oakdale have given me peace of mind when leaving my mum there as I know
she will be happy and well looked after. Thank you.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you so much Carole for your kind words, we work hard to ensure we are a real family, all who visit, live and work here.
from Lesley K (Daughter of Resident) published on 21 October 2025
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
Oakdale was recommended to me for daycare by a work colleague whose mother is a resident.
I cannot fault the staff how they are with the residents and how accommodating the management are in people attending. Oakdale have been a god send to me as I work full time and was unable to leave my mum along
during the day. It was never too much trouble to ask at late notice. They always accommodated a space for mum.
Not only are all the staff lovely and kind to the residents they all seem happy amongst themselves and in their job which creates a really good feeling in the home.
I recommend Oakdale more than 100% and wholeheartedly thank them for being so amazing, kind and genuinely caring.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you so very much Lesley for your kind words, we wish you and mum all the very best in the future our door is always open if you need us in the future Mel xx
from John S (Son of Resident) published on 23 September 2025
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
In my opinion Oakdale has got to be the best care home around, everyone is so caring for the residents it's unbelievable. I have never seen any wrong doing in all the time I've been visiting, everyone is so kind and if and when the time comes, I would love to go there.
First class care home and first
class people.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you so very much John for your kind words means a lot to myself and the team, you are such a huge support to us and a very valued member of our Oakdale family.
from Garry E (Son of Resident) published on 19 September 2025
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Overall Experience4.0 out of 5
My Mum was sadly not at Oakdale for long as she passed away. However the staff at Oakdale were amazing looking after her to the very end. Their kindness and dedication cannot be equalled. We were always made to feel welcome and knew that as we went home Mum would be well looked after.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you for your kind words. It was a pleasure to care for your mum and have you all part of our Oakdale Family.
from Maureen A (Friend of Resident) published on 19 September 2025
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
I recently went to a garden fete at Oakdale, and it was great. So well organised, residents and visitors were really looked after. There was a delicious BBQ, all the drinks you wanted. Entertainment, raffles, lucky dip etc., was all good fun. The staff worked so hard - nothing too much trouble, they
were on hand to care for all residents - and visitors! Well organised, well done!
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you for your lovely words and thank you for choosing Oakdale.
from K E (Respite Resident) published on 12 September 2025
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
I stayed at Oakdale for 2 weeks for respite care after being very unwell since the beginning of the year. I was treated very well with help and kindness. Everyone works so hard to provide special care for all residents, whether short or long-term requirements. Thank you to everyone.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you so much for your lovey kind words, the whole team enjoyed looking after you, you are more than welcome back any time
from S W (Daughter of Resident) published on 9 September 2025
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
My mum always looks happy and well cared for, and the staff are friendly, caring and well trained. Mum settled in really quickly, enjoys all the varied activities on offer, and she never asks to go home. The staff also know my dad and family well from our visits, and they include us in decision-making
and always make us feel part of the Oakdale family.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you so very much for your kind words, we are so pleased that you feel mum is well cared for, your support is amazing as a family, we appreciate all you do as well to support us.
from S V (Daughter of Resident) published on 9 September 2025
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Overall Experience5.0 out of 5
Me and my family are very pleased with mum's care, staff are very helpful and friendly. Mum is very happy at Oakdale, mum loves the trips out plus being in the garden.
Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care HomeThank you for your kind words, we have loved this summer going out for our trips, linking in with the community can be so beneficial to us all
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