
Nothing was too much trouble at Friars Mead and the staff were so friendly and givingGary B(Son of Resident/Service User)

Being small everyone knows the residents by name and they all join to eat together at lunch timeChristine R(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

The staff turnover is very low, and the use of agency staff isn't requiredAndrea G(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

Nothing was too much trouble at Friars Mead and the staff were so friendly and givingGary B(Son of Resident/Service User)

Being small everyone knows the residents by name and they all join to eat together at lunch timeChristine R(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

The staff turnover is very low, and the use of agency staff isn't requiredAndrea G(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

Abbeyfield Friars Mead Care Home is a warm, homely community in Kings Langley, Hertfordshire, offering residential and respite care for older people. They support people to live with dignity, choice, and as much independence as possible, with 24-hour care tailored to individual needs, routines, and preferences.
Friars Mead is registered with the Care Quality Commission (CQC) and is part of Abbeyfield England. The home is currently completing a refurbishment programme...
Care Provided by Abbeyfield Friars Mead
Primary Care Categories
- Older Person Care
- Dementia
- Learning Disability / Autism
- Mental Health Condition
- Physical Disability
- Visual / Hearing Impairment
- Eating Disorders
- Alcohol / Drug Misuse
Length of Stay
- Permanent Care
- Respite Care
Care Types Provided
- Residential Care
- Dementia Residential Care
- For a maximum of 27 Service Users
Dementia Care TypesMild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
Mild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
- Mild Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
Other Care Provided
- Parkinson's Disease
- Stroke
- Palliative / End of Life Care
- COPD/Pulmonary Disease
- Bariatric Care/Obesity
- Convalescent Care
- Acquired Brain Injury (ABI)
Accreditations
- Adopt A Grandparent
Facilities
- Own Furniture if required
- Pet Friendly (or by arrangement)
- Smoking not permitted
- Close to Local shops
- Near Public Transport
- Minibus or other transport
- Lift
- Stairlift
- Wheelchair Access
- Ground Floor Accommodation only
- Gardens
- Residents Kitchenette
- Phone Point in own room
- Television point in own room
- Residents Internet Access
Funding & Fees
Weekly Charges per Person
Additional charges may apply for services arranged by the resident or family, such as hairdressing, private chiropody/podiatry, newspapers, toiletries, and certain external appointments/transport. Any optional extras and associated costs are explained in advance. Where a top-up is proposed, it is accepted only if it is lawful and appropriate, agreed in writing, and clearly set out, including who will pay it, what it covers, and how any future fee increases will be managed. A full written breakdown is provided before admission so families can make an informed decision.
The price(s) shown are provided by the care home. Contact Abbeyfield Friars Mead for full pricing details and T&Cs.
Contact Abbeyfield Friars Mead to confirm what's included and get a personalised quote:
Funding Types Accepted
- Self-Funding (Private)
- Local Authority with Top-up
- Local Authority
- NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)
Good to Know
Group / Owner
- Abbeyfield Member Societies
- Voluntary / Not for Profit Owned
Person in charge
- Ricardo Da Silva Freitas (Registered Care Home Manager)
Local Authority / Social Services
Admission Information
- Mixed (no single-gender units)
- Ages 65+
Care Home Design/Build
- Purpose Built: Yes
- Year Purpose Built: 1992
- Last Refurbishment: 2026
- Number of floors: 2
Room Information
- Single Rooms (26)
- Single Rooms with ensuite Wet Room (26)
Visiting
- Visitors are welcome daily, including evenings, with flexible visiting to support family life and individual routines. On arrival, visitors are asked to sign in, follow current infection prevention measures, and respect the privacy and dignity of all residents. If a resident is unwell, the team may suggest shorter visits or alternative arrangements to support recovery and protect others. Children are welcome when supervised by an adult, and visits can take place in communal areas or the resident's room, depending on preference and what is happening in the home at the time. Where a quieter environment is needed, the team will help identify a suitable space. If a planned visit needs to change due to care needs, emergencies, or an outbreak control measure, the team will explain the reason and support alternative options wherever possible.
Parking
- Parking for visitors is available on site, close to the home, subject to availability. Visitors are asked to park considerately and avoid blocking driveways, access routes, or delivery areas. Where on-site spaces are full, there is usually additional on-street parking nearby. Visitors are encouraged to allow a few extra minutes at busy times. If a visitor requires step-free access or needs to be dropped off close to the entrance, this can be accommodated to support safe arrival and departure.
Abbeyfield Friars Mead Reviews (46)
Abbeyfield Friars Mead has a Review Score of 9.8 (9.776) out of 10, based on 17 reviews in the last 2 years.
Over all time Abbeyfield Friars Mead has 46 reviews.
I visited my uncle today, and all the staff could not have been friendlier. My uncle was wished a happy birthday several times by various staff members while I was there. Since moving from a previous care home, my uncle has put on weight and is so much happier.
Thank you so much for this lovely review, D W - it really made our day. We're so glad your uncle had a happy birthday and that so many of the team took the time to wish him well. It means a lot to hear that he's settled in, put on some weight, and seems so much happier since moving to Friars Mead -...
My mother-in-law lived at Friars Mead for a year and a half, and we couldn't be happier with the care she received there. All the staff at the care home were so friendly and caring and always had time to talk to us. My mother-in-law positively thrived at Friars Mead, enjoying the food, the activities and the friendships she made with residents and staff. She was always well groomed and happy when we visited. The staff took her on outings as well as providing regular entertainment including arts and crafts, skittles, bingo, quizzes and many more things. The family days were a highlight providing food and entertainment for the residents and their families. Although the home is small, it has a real homely feel to it and it makes you feel like a part of a family. I would highly recommend this care home and am extremely grateful to all the staff for the care my mother-in-law received during her stay at Friars Mead.
Thank you so much, Dawn - what a beautiful review, and what a joy to read.
It sounds like your mother-in-law truly made Friars Mead her home, and that is exactly what we hope for every resident who walks through our doors. Knowing she was happy, well cared for, and surrounded by friendships...
I would absolutely recommend this care home to anyone. The ratio of staff to residents is very good. The rooms are all very nice as is the garden area. It has just 25 rooms, but this is part of what makes it a warm and friendly home to all. Highly recommended.
Thank you so much, Gary - what a truly wonderful review to read. It means the world to us to know that your mother not only felt at home here, but genuinely thrived during her time with us. That is everything we strive for.
Your kind words will be shared with the whole team - they deserve to...
A lot of thought goes into activities, and is a clean, calm and safe environment.
There is a welcoming atmosphere for family members and the staff have adapted to suit my grandmother's needs.
We are truly grateful for your lovely comments about our team and the care provided to your grandmother. It means a great deal to us to know that you feel she is treated with dignity and respect, and that you've...
My mother has spent nearly six years at Friars Mead and I cannot thank the staff enough for their friendliness and concern for her welfare since her very first trial visit. Mum had severe memory loss and was very wobbly on her feet so struggled at home with her welfare and loneliness. She loved the regular meals, put on weight and became a lot less confused and muddled once someone else was looking out for her 24/7. Friars Mead is a very happy place. Always spotlessly clean and never smelling like lots of other places do. Being small everyone knows the residents by name and they all join to eat together at lunch time which Mum loved. She also loved the activities particularly singing and quizzes which she seemed to win! Mum spent her final days at Friars Mead and the staff treated both her and her family with the utmost care, compassion and respect. I think it says a lot that two of the key members of staff in Mum's final hours were also there to welcome her six years earlier.
We're pleased to hear she felt welcomed from her trial visit, benefited from regular meals and 24-hour support, and enjoyed the companionship at lunchtime and the activities -...
We would thoroughly recommend the facilities and care received in what Friars Mead always called her home.
We're very pleased your mother chose Friars Mead and that the move from the Isle of Wight enabled her to be closer to you in Kings Langley. It means a great deal to hear that she felt settled, that her room met her...
When it became obvious that mum needed more support, she agreed with us that the natural progression would be a move to Friars Mead. For us as a family, there were no other options which we felt would have suited her.
The cosy and homely atmosphere meant that she settled in very quickly in a lovely room.
As mum's needs have changed, the managers and staff have continually adapted things specifically for her, ensuring that she has been comfortable, safe and extremely well cared for.
We visit frequently, are always made very welcome and updated by staff about how mum is. The staff turnover is very low, and the use of agency staff isn't required, which means that mum has got to know the people who care for her very well. Last week I heard her thanking one of the carers for all their help, which was lovely to hear.
We really couldn't ask for more.
It is truly rewarding to hear how well she has settled with us and that the move felt like a natural and positive step for your family. Creating a cosy, homely environment where residents...
I spent quite some time looking into different care homes in Kings Langley and the neighbouring areas, and chose Friars Mead, because it felt like the most family home environment. I was delighted with the kindness and quality of care the staff gave to my mother throughout her 6 months stay with them, helping her and me to navigate the difficulties of coming to the end of her life with warmth and kindness and dignity.
Jenny - Thank you for taking the time to share this. We are very sorry for your loss and reiterate our condolences. We're grateful you chose Friars Mead and that the home felt like the right environment for your mum. Supporting someone towards the end of their life is a privilege, and I'm pleased...
We are particularly appreciative of the care given to help my mother after a recent discharge from hospital. And she said recently she is feeling much better and happy to be home.
Thank you so much for your wonderful review and for your continued trust in Friars Mead over the past five years. It is truly heartwarming to hear that your mother feels content and happy with us - especially that she feels "home." That is one of the greatest compliments we can receive. We're also...
The staff are caring and genuinely interested in meeting the individual needs of the residents.
Every one is treated with dignity and respect. The staff are excellent, from the admin to the carers, the domestic staff and caterers.
Many of the carers go above and beyond what is required of them, encouraging the residents to take part in many organised social activities. We feel happy that my mother in law is being well looked after.
We are delighted to hear that you find our home friendly and welcoming, and that our team's commitment to dignity, respect and personalised care has made a...
I visit with my registered therapy dog and we always look forward to our visits to see all the residents and the hard working staff.
We have been invited not only to make monthly visits throughout the year but was also invited to spend time with them on one of their day trips on the canal boat and also thoroughtly enjoyed our special visit on Xmas day !! - very special day where everyone had gone the extra mile to make the day memorable for all the residents and their visiting families.
We are both very much looking forward to our visits in 2026 and beyond !.
Please keep up the great work you are all doing.
It means a great deal to our residents and team that you visit with your registered therapy dog, and we're pleased you've consistently felt welcomed by management, staff, and fellow volunteers. The...
I had the privilege of volunteering at Abbeyfield Friars Mead Garden Day. I was warmly welcomed and took pride in supporting the care home staff, fellow volunteers, and family members to ensure the garden looked its best. Meeting the residents and hardworking staff was truly rewarding. I would like to thank the team for including me at Abbeyfield Friars Mead. I look forward to volunteering again.
Dear Klaus, thank you so much for your heartfelt review! We truly appreciate the time and effort you dedicated to supporting our garden day at Abbeyfield Friars Mead. It's wonderful to hear that you felt welcomed and valued as part of our community. Your contribution made a significant difference...
It is reassuring to know that Dad is being so well looked after, and he often says how much he is enjoying the delicious meals and many organised activities.
We feel genuinely grateful to have found such a special place for Dad to stay, thank you all for welcoming us to the Friars family.
Thank you so much for your heartfelt review. We are truly delighted to hear that you and your father felt welcomed and supported from the moment you arrived at Friars. It warms our hearts to know that he is enjoying the delicious meals and engaging activities we offer. Your appreciation for our...
The below ratings say it all. The standard of care provided to my father during two respite stays was first class. Staff and management were extremely attentive, caring and treated Dad with dignity. Thank you.
Dear Phillip, thank you for your wonderful review and for sharing your father's experience with us. We are thrilled to hear that the care provided during his respite stays met your high standards and that our staff and management were able to make a positive impact. It is our priority to ensure...
The staff at Friars Mead are amazing. My Dad doesn't have a bad word to say about them. They have helped us all and are always friendly and can't do enough for you.
It is very homely and the staff try and make Dad participate in the activities.
He went on a lovely boat trip which he thoroughly enjoyed. Dad has really enjoyed being able to get outside in the good weather. Thank you.
Dear Wendy, thank you for your kind review and for sharing your father's positive experience at Friars Mead. We are delighted to hear that he is enjoying his time with us and that our staff have been able to make a difference in his daily life. It's wonderful to know that he enjoyed the boat trip...
My mother has been at Friars Mead for over a year now. In that time there has been a big improvement in her wellbeing and outlook. The staff have been fantastic, they look after her with great care and compassion and I feel she is in very safe hands which puts my mind at rest. Thank you Friars Mead.
Dear Justine, Thank you so much for your kind words and for taking the time to share your experience. We are delighted to hear about the positive impact Friars Mead has had on your mother's well-being and outlook. It's wonderful to know that our team's care and compassion have provided comfort and...
All the staff are friendly, and caring and know the residents well.
It has a relaxed family feel amongst residents and staff.
Communication with us has been effective and liaison with agencies is good. Our Mother's physical and emotional needs are met very well.
All our concerns are addressed quickly by senior staff.
I cannot speak highly enough of Friars Mead.
Thank you for your kind words and thoughtful review of Friars Mead. We are truly grateful for your trust in us to care for your mother. It's heartening to hear that our team's efforts to adapt to her changing needs and ensure her comfort are appreciated.We strive to create a welcoming, family-like...
My mother-in-law is very happy and enjoys the interaction and help from the staff and from day one has felt very much at home at Friars Mead.
Our team appreciate the kind words. We strive to make everyone comfortable and welcome. Thanks for trusting us with the important work of looking after your mother-in-law. Thank you
My mother is very happy, well cared for, in this small, friendly environment.
Friars Mead keeps us updated at all times should there be a problem!
It is great to go into this very warm, welcoming care home.
Thank you for the kind words, we are so happy to hear that Friars Mead keeps doing good work. Looking after Mum and making sure she is happy is our priority. We want everyone to feel welcome.
Such a friendly and vibrant atmosphere which has contributed to the improvement of my nan's overall well-being. Seeing her thrive in this environment brings such comfort. The staff interacted with her with an abundance of good humour and great care. It has a colourful warm feel to the entire home with beautiful and fresh flowers in every room. The social events and opportunities to mingle and make friends have bought my nan a new lease of life. She feels like she's on a permanent holiday! Thank you so much for the kindness you show.
Thank you for the kind words. We appreciate your openness and I am so glad your nan feels like it's a permanent holiday. Our resident's happiness means everything to us and we want them to live their best lives. Thank you for us all.
Regulatory Rating
Care Quality Commission (CQC) Rating
Date: 06 February 2026Requires improvement
- CaringGood
- EffectiveRequires improvement
- ResponsiveGood
- SafeRequires improvement
- Well-ledRequires improvement
Inspection ratings
We rate most services according to how safe, effective, caring, responsive and well-led they are, using four levels:
- Outstanding - The service is performing exceptionally well.
- Good - The service is performing well and meeting our expectations.
- Requires Improvement - The service isn't performing as well as it should and we have told the service how it must improve.
- Inadequate - The service is performing badly and we've taken action against the person or organisation that runs it.
- Not rated - we have not yet rated this area of the service, this is normally because the assessments we have carried out have been focused on other key questions.
Bed Vacancies
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News (2) & Events (0)
- 19 Feb 2026
Celebrating 70 Years of Abbeyfield This year, Abbeyfield proudly celebrates a truly special milestone—70 years of supporting older people and building communities where everyone feels at home. What began as...
- 11 Feb 2026
At Friars Mead, our 3-for-2 respite offer gives you three weeks of respite care for the price of two—a practical way to plan short-term support without compromising on quality. Respite...
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Meet the Team (2)

Ricardo Da Silva Freitas is the Registered Manager at Abbeyfield Friars Mead House in Kings Langley. He leads the day-to-day running of the home, ensuring residents receive safe, person-centred support that protects dignity, choice and independence.
Ricardo’s focus is on consistent quality, strong governance and clear communication with families and professionals. He works closely with residents, relatives, GPs and community health teams to ensure care plans remain up to date, risks are managed, and support reflects what matters most to each person.
Ricardo is committed to developing a stable, skilled team through supervision, training, and adherence to professional standards, and to maintaining an open, welcoming culture where people feel listened to and supported. He welcomes enquiries from families who want honest guidance, a clear assessment process, and a home where care is delivered with warmth and respect.

Sharon Bell is the Care Manager at Abbeyfield Friars Mead House and will mark 35 years with the home this year. With deep experience in residential care, Sharon provides steady, compassionate leadership on the floor and behind the scenes, helping to ensure residents receive safe, consistent and person-centred support.
In her role, Sharon oversees day-to-day care delivery and works closely with the Registered Manager and the wider team to maintain high standards. She supports staff practice, helps embed clear routines and good record-keeping, and contributes to key areas of compliance, including infection prevention and control, emergency preparedness, and operational continuity. Sharon is also closely involved in coordinating with health professionals and ensuring care plans reflect current needs and risks.
Families value Sharon’s calm, practical approach and her focus on respectful care that protects dignity, choice and comfort. Her long-standing commitment to Friars Mead helps maintain a familiar, reassuring environment for residents and a supportive culture for staff.
Frequently Asked Questions about Abbeyfield Friars Mead
What types of Care is Abbeyfield Friars Mead registered for?
Older Person Care, Dementia, Learning Disability / Autism, Mental Health Condition, Physical Disability, Visual / Hearing Impairment, Eating Disorders, Alcohol / Drug Misuse are the registered (by the Care Quality Commission) categories of Care.
How many Rooms does Abbeyfield Friars Mead have?
There are 26 Single Rooms.
What are the Facilities & Services at Abbeyfield Friars Mead?
Own Furniture if required, Pet Friendly (or by arrangement), Smoking not permitted, Close to Local shops, Near Public Transport, Minibus or other transport, Lift, Stairlift, Wheelchair Access, Ground Floor Accommodation only, Gardens, Residents Kitchenette, Phone Point in own room, Television point in own room, Residents Internet Access are some of the Facilities & Services.
How far is Abbeyfield Friars Mead to the centre of Kings Langley?
0.3 mile(s) as the crow flies, distance by road may be significantly further.
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