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Pelham House is located in the quiet picturesque village of Cuckfield, which is in the heart of Mid Sussex. Pelham House features well-presented single bedrooms which offer en-suite facilities, two spacious lounges, a hair and beauty salon, sensory garden, activities room, WiFi, elegant dining room...
Care Provided by Pelham House
Primary Care Categories
- Older Person Care
- Dementia
- Physical Disability
- Visual / Hearing Impairment
Length of Stay
- Permanent Care
- Respite Care
Care Types Provided
- Residential Care
- Dementia Residential Care
- For a maximum of 30 Service Users
Dementia Care TypesMild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
Mild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
- Mild Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
- Advanced/Complex Dementia
Other Care Provided
- Parkinson's Disease
- Stroke
- Palliative / End of Life Care
- Convalescent Care
- Day Care
Facilities
- Own Furniture if required
- Smoking not permitted
- Close to Local shops
- Near Public Transport
- Minibus or other transport
- Lift
- Wheelchair Access
- Gardens
- Phone Point in own room
- Television point in own room
- Residents Internet Access
Funding & Fees
Weekly Charges per Person
The price(s) shown are provided by the care home. Contact Pelham House for full pricing details and T&Cs.
Contact Pelham House to confirm what's included and get a personalised quote:
Funding Types Accepted
- Self-Funding (Private)
- Local Authority with Top-up
- Local Authority
- NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)
Good to Know
Owner
- Cedarcare (SE) Ltd
- Private Owned
Person in charge
- Barbara Mare (Registered Manager)
Local Authority / Social Services
Admission Information
- Ages 65+
Care Home Design/Build
- Purpose Built: No
- Last Refurbishment: 2016
Room Information
- Single Rooms (30)
Visiting
- Visiting by appointment
Parking
- Small car park
Pelham House Reviews (41)
Pelham House has a Review Score of 8.6 (8.598) out of 10, based on 3 reviews in the last 2 years.
Over all time Pelham House has 41 reviews.
My Mum was a very head strong lady and was a little bit of a nightmare when she first was admitted. She soon settled and she told us every time we visited her which was usually every other week, how well she was looked after and that whenever she asked for anything, the staff made sure that she received whatever she requested. We realised quite early that our mum was in good care and we had no concerns. Mum went downhill quite quickly, but she would still complemented all of the staff. The Home was always clean and tidy.
I could not have found a more relaxed and happy home for my mum, where all her needs were so thoughtfully and appropriately met.
Thank you all
My family and I couldn't have found a better placement than Pelham House.
Unfortunately, he was only there for 5 months but I cannot recommend this home, more highly.
The entire team, greet you with a smile and look after, not only the residents but the families, as well.
Thank you, Pelham House
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The Manager and all of the wonderful caring staff at Pelham House provided my Dad with exemplary care and compassion during the 10 months he was in residence.
I visited every week and was highly impressed with the staff/patient interaction. My dad was entertained, well cared for and extremely happy there until he passed away peacefully in his sleep on 7th May. He was 97 years of age.
Thank you so much for your very kind feedback. It was a pleasure to have your father with us at Pelham House, he is missed dearly. What a wonderful gentleman he was. Best wishes to you and your family.
I read the CQC report when my friend became a resident and was uncomfortable as many recommendations were made. However, since there has been a change in management with a new care manager the overall standard has improved tremendously.
Care plans are current, and communication between staff is now excellent with all levels of understanding what the current goals set for my friend and how to go about achieving them with her.
The staff are very kind and I have never heard any member of staff sounding irritated when a resident is aggressive as can be the case sometimes with dementia. I have observed how a resident can allocate one particular carer for the day if they are distressed. New staff have been recruited, plans are afoot for developing more activities.
Thank you for your kind words, as you can see we have implemented huge changes at Pelham House and are excited for the future.
Care has much improved with change of management and feel I have no worries at all. Staff go above and beyond.
Home has a wonderful chilled feel to it.
Well done to you all.
I have found the staff very helpful and my mum is happy with the food.
Thank you for taking the time to review us I will feed back to the team.
I have found all staff in the care home to be approachable, knowledgeable and understanding in difficult times they have shown empathy and flexibility. It is extremely easy to converse with the staff to arrange matters. At the same time, I feel my relative is in safe and comfortable surroundings.
I will pass your thanks on to my team.
Both of my parents now live in Pelham House. They have been made to feel part of the Pelham family and are very happy. The manager and staff have gone above and beyond to make sure they have everything they need.
They have just enjoyed their 1st Christmas with an abundance of Christmas cheer. The staff are always saying how lovely my parents are and my parents always say the same of the staff. There is always something going on for my parents to join in with, and they enjoy visits out to the garden with the raised flower beds. I have peace of mind that my parents are being very well cared for to a very high standard.
Thank you so much for your kind review. Mum and dad are a joy to care for, we are all so happy that they are a part of the Pelham family. I will pass your kind words onto my team.
The team at Pelham House took excellent care of my mum. She was made very comfortable and treated with great dignity. The staff are very friendly and really do go the extra mile. For example, when my mum was off her food, individual staff were bringing in things that they knew she liked to encourage her to eat. The place really does a ‘home’ in the true sense of the word. I would have no hesitation recommending Pelham House to anybody considering care for a loved one.
Thank you Jason for your kind words, mum was a pleasure to look after for the short time we knew her. I will pass your thanks on to the team and we all wish you and your family well.
After a series of falls, my mother was taken into hospital and on discharge, she was placed in Pelham House. Initially, I thought of moving her to a home nearer to where I live but it was apparent that she was in an excellent place, so she has remained there. I liked the idea of a small number of residents surrounded by friendly professional staff - who truly care. Throughout these difficult covid-19 times they have successfully kept covid out and protected the people in their care. The regular newsletter has been useful to see what activities my mother has been doing. Whenever I've visited or spoken to any members of staff, it is clear that they know my mother as an individual and understands her own 'little ways'. If there is anything they need to know about my mother (likes/dislikes, general history) they will always call to ask me questions. Although the covid restrictions have limited access to my mother, I am happy that she is well cared for and in a safe place.
Stay safe.
Pelham House has to be commended for their organisation and primary consideration of residents during the Covid pandemic. Staff and management have been cognisant of the difficulties that the restrictions have placed on everybody, but nevertheless have always been helpful, organised and empathetic towards residents and relatives requirements. A great job all round.
Thank you Paul for your kind feedback I will pass it on to the team.
It has been a difficult decision to move Mum to a care home during lockdown and as a family, it was hard not to be able to settle her in ourselves. The staff at Pelham House have done a wonderful job of making her feel welcome and she seems to be happy in her new home. We are looking forward to spending more time at Pelham House once restrictions are lifted.
Stuart, thank you so much for your kind words I will pass on to the team, mum is a joy to care for already part of the Pelham family.
My father has settled in well at Pelham House. The staff and managers are very accommodating, listen and are keen to provide my father with the best possible care. The food provided there is something my father particularly enjoys. His accommodation is very nice and he has a large room with a bathroom adapted to his needs. There is a distinctly personal touch to the home and I get the impression that the staff are proud to work there and really want to make all their residents feel truly at home. Various activities keep the residents occupied and my father enjoys his daily newspaper too. It really is a very nice place.
Thank you so much for your kind words. We are so glad dad settled with us he's a great character, I will pass on your review to the team.
Brilliant start, my mother has been resident just over a month and is happy, content and now has plenty to occupy her day. The staff have been wonderful and really made her feel welcome. A big WELL DONE to Pelham House.
Thank you so much for your kind words. Mum is amazing and a lovely addition to our family, I will pass on to my team.
My mother’s dementia had become so advanced she was unable to stay safely in her home. So my sister and I started the hunt for a residential home that we hoped would suit her and she would be happy. We looked at many but the one that stood out was Pelham House in Cuckfield. We were able to have a look around the rooms and from the windows the main areas, this was due to Covid restrictions being in place. We liked what we saw and so started the process of getting Mum a place. The staff and manager did all they could to make the transition as easy as possible. Mother had to be isolated for two weeks after a negative Covid test, but all went well and she is now happy to move about the home and visit all open areas. The manager has been able to create a secure Covid room for visiting which has made a huge difference and so Mother is permitted visits. One of the great plus points is there is always activities being organised throughout the day. Thank you Pelham House. I just wanted to add my thanks to all of you for your willingness to help our Mother, settle and adjust. We have found all the staff to be friendly and helpful and we thank you for all of that. Being able to talk to her on the phone and visit has made the adjustment so much easier.
Jane, thank you so much for your kind review. I will pass your thanks on to the team. Your mum has quickly become part of the Pelham family and she is a joy to care for, it is lovely to have such positive feedback, especially during this difficult time for everyone.
Exceptional home, the manager and her team have ensured the home is Covid-19 free throughout. Excellent infection control in place. I visit my mother with confidence steps are in place either in the garden or inside a private room, so I can see my mother at specific times. Well done to all the team. Keep up the good work.
Thank you, Kate, for your lovely review I will pass on to my team. Mum is a joy to care for.
My Gran moved into Pelham House in September 2018. My Mum, my brother and I got to know the staff very well. We have also seen how very professional the workers are. My Gran is treated very well with the utmost care and respect.
Thank you for your kind words we really appreciate it, I will pass your message on to my team.
The staff at Pelham House are all friendly, helpful and caring, my mother really settled in very well and is very happy there. They are very accommodating to me and I rest assured that she is in a safe and being well looked after.
Thank you for your very kind words, much appreciated, your mum is a joy to care for and I will pass on your message to my team.
My aunt has been a resident at Pelham House for over two years. The staff look after her every need and do a wonderful job of keeping all the residents safe and stimulated. We are my aunts only family but we live in another county. This means we can't visit as often as we would like but we are kept informed of her health and well-being on a regular basis. I can't praise the entire care team at Pelham highly enough, they are friendly, kind and professional at all times. During the current pandemic, I have total confidence that the infection control measures that have been put in place by the management team, will protect all the residents from Coronavirus. Well done to everyone at Pelham House and keep up the great work.
I will pass on your message to my fantastic team
Thank you
Regulatory Rating
Care Quality Commission (CQC) Rating
Date: 19 July 2023Requires improvement
- CaringGood
- EffectiveGood
- ResponsiveGood
- SafeRequires improvement
- Well-ledRequires improvement
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- Outstanding - The service is performing exceptionally well.
- Good - The service is performing well and meeting our expectations.
- Requires Improvement - The service isn't performing as well as it should and we have told the service how it must improve.
- Inadequate - The service is performing badly and we've taken action against the person or organisation that runs it.
- Not rated - we have not yet rated this area of the service, this is normally because the assessments we have carried out have been focused on other key questions.
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Meet the Team (1)

I have worked in health and social care for 30 years and 22 of those are in social care. I am a trained Nurse and have worked in various Hospitals and settings. I have been managing Care Homes for 16 years. I hold NVQ level 4 in leadership and Management for care services.
I am passionate about person-centred care and having good outcomes for our residents. I am always looking for ways in which people living with dementia can be supported to remain as independent as possible and to have purposeful days.
I believe being in care should not mean the end but the beginning of another chapter in life so I promote activities which create meaningful and purposeful days for our residents.
Frequently Asked Questions about Pelham House
What types of Care is Pelham House registered for?
Older Person Care, Dementia, Physical Disability, Visual / Hearing Impairment are the registered (by the Care Quality Commission) categories of Care.
How many Rooms does Pelham House have?
There are 30 Single Rooms.
What are the Facilities & Services at Pelham House?
Own Furniture if required, Smoking not permitted, Close to Local shops, Near Public Transport, Minibus or other transport, Lift, Wheelchair Access, Gardens, Phone Point in own room, Television point in own room, Residents Internet Access are some of the Facilities & Services.
How far is Pelham House to the centre of Haywards Heath?
1.9 mile(s) as the crow flies, distance by road may be significantly further.
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