
amazing staff; all of whom showed him warmth, respect and thoughtfulness.Beverley B(Friend of Resident/Service User)

A beautiful facility with a host of great carers and nurses who are always on handSteven M(Son of Resident/Service User)

Incredible personalised care and support for my mum who has dementiaDelphine H(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

amazing staff; all of whom showed him warmth, respect and thoughtfulness.Beverley B(Friend of Resident/Service User)

A beautiful facility with a host of great carers and nurses who are always on handSteven M(Son of Resident/Service User)

Incredible personalised care and support for my mum who has dementiaDelphine H(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

Iden Manor Nursing Home is a family-owned nursing home in Staplehurst, Kent, established in 2003 and rated Good by the Care Quality Commission (CQC, January 2026). Iden Manor provides residential care, nursing care, dementia care, complex care, rapid hospital discharge, respite care, day care and long-term care in a welcoming Victorian manor setting.
The Home’s dedicated dementia support community provides specialist care for people living with dementia, memory loss and cognitive...
Care Provided by Iden Manor Nursing Home
Primary Care Categories
- Older Person Care
- Dementia
- Mental Health Condition
- Physical Disability
- Visual / Hearing Impairment
- Younger Adults
Length of Stay
- Permanent Care
- Respite Care
Care Types Provided
- Residential Care
- Nursing Care
- Dementia Residential Care
- Dementia Nursing Care
- For a maximum of 51 Service Users
Dementia Care TypesMild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
Mild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
- Mild Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
- Advanced/Complex Dementia
Other Care Provided
- Parkinson's Disease
- Stroke
- Palliative / End of Life Care
- COPD/Pulmonary Disease
- Convalescent Care
- Acquired Brain Injury (ABI)
- Day Care
Facilities
- Own Furniture if required
- Pet Friendly (or by arrangement)
- Close to Local shops
- Near Public Transport
- Minibus or other transport
- Lift
- Stairlift
- Wheelchair Access
- Gardens
- Bar/Café
- Residents Kitchenette
- Phone Point in own room
- Television point in own room
- Residents Internet Access
Funding & Fees
Weekly Charges per Person
Excluding FNC where applicable
The price(s) shown are provided by the care home. Contact Iden Manor Nursing Home for full pricing details and T&Cs.
Contact Iden Manor Nursing Home to confirm what's included and get a personalised quote:
Funding Types Accepted
- Self-Funding (Private)
- Local Authority with Top-up
- Local Authority
- NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)
Support you may be entitled to
- If you chose a care home based in England, you may be eligible for NHS Funded Nursing Care (FNC), which helps cover the cost of nursing. This is worth £267.68 per week and is usually paid directly to the care home.
Good to Know
Owner
- Hoama (Staplehurst) Ltd
- Private Owned
Person in charge
- Jean Reeves-Yates(General Manager)
Local Authority / Social Services
Admission Information
- Ages from 30 to 120
Care Home Design/Build
- Purpose Built: No
- Last Refurbishment: 2023
- Number of floors: 4
Room Information
- Single Rooms (51)
Visiting
- The Home encourages visiting at all times, however visitors are respectfully asked to phone ahead if they intend to visit during unsocial hours, so provisions can be made for visiting that will not disturb other residents
Parking
- Limited parking is available on site of the home for visitors
Iden Manor Nursing Home Reviews (45)
Iden Manor Nursing Home has a Review Score of 9.6 (9.556) out of 10, based on 15 reviews in the last 2 years.
Over all time Iden Manor Nursing Home has 45 reviews.
My sister in law was a resident in Iden Manor for just over two years when we decided that she needed to move care homes, When she first went to Iden Manor she had residents to talk to, but as the time we t on we noticed that she was having fewer and fewer residents she could interact with, obviously this wasn't the fault of the care home as they were taking in residents that needed care and they just happened to be residents with dementia. The care home were very kind and caring and the lifestyle and activity staff were exemplary in trying to keep the residents engaged and their minds active, the communication towards the end of her stay there between her, staff and management started to get a bit hit and miss, often messages sent were not delivered or requests were not followed up. When she left 1/2 of her discharge papers related to another resident and we had to request them as they were not sent with her to her new care home. Iden Manor did their best
Thank you for taking the time to share your feedback of your 2yrs with us ,and the lovely words about our team. Supporting people to remain engaged, stimulated and connected is something we care deeply about,hence our commitment to ensuring our weekly outings to the local community,it is lovely to...
My brother stayed at this home for 6 months following a lengthy spell in hospital. His goal was always to return home which has happened and I think Iden Manor helped him achieve that goal. The staff were always kind and whilst there he joined the many activities and had trips out. Everyone was always friendly and the set up took away some of the care home feel and gave it an hotel feeling especially in the dining room. Thank you to everyone
Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience-it truly means a great deal to us. It has been an absolute privilege to support your brother during his time with us. From the very beginning, his goal of returning home was at the heart of everything, and we are so very pleased to have...
They assessed her and took her on and within two weeks my wife has settled and is a different person.
From the manager down they care and do not pigeon hole a sufferer and treat each one as an individual.
She is not as difficult as others thought but needed the right care and Iden Manor has it on spades.
Thank you Iden and I would recommend this place anytime
Reading your words means more than we can say. We know how incredibly difficult and emotional the journey can be when someone you love is living with dementia. To hear that you felt in despair before finding us is deeply...
My Father has dementia. Trying to look after him at home was becoming beyond my and his partners capabilities. I just didn't realise how we both had just run out of strength looking after him ! So I made the decision to phone Iden Manor. Within 30 minutes we had a home visit from Iden Manor to be accessed. A further 60 minutes a team arrived and taxed him to Iden Manor. Once we walked through the doors we knew we have chosen a correctly. All the staff had smiles and laughter with a warm friendly approach.
It means a great deal to hear that you felt confident in your decision and experienced the warmth and...
The staff are caring and competent.The building is impressive. The whole operation is tightly managed and operated giving confidence that my wife is properly looked after. I could not ask for more taking into account the whole circumstances prevailing.
We are so pleased to hear that you feel confident your wife is well cared for. Our team work incredibly hard to ensure every resident feels safe, supported and valued, and knowing this has been your...
Once you walk though the doors of Iden Manor you know you have made the right decision for your loved one. The smiles and happy staff says it all.
Thank you so much for your beautiful words - they truly mean the world to us.
Knowing your loved one feels safe, happy, and enriched in our home is the greatest reward for our team. We are so grateful for your trust and are privileged to care for your family member each day.
My sister has very complex medical needs due to a serious fall, resulting in a brain injury, but the compassion and care she is given is second to none.
All the staff and management are the friendliest and most helpful people you could wish to be caring for a loved one.
Thank you for your feedback Simon, and for entrusting us with someone so special to you all. It really is our absolute pleasure supporting your amazing sister in achieving all that is.
Staff seem nothing but helpful. My Uncle seems really happy. Loves the food and activities. Iden Manor has really made a difference to his mental and physical health. Couldn't be happier. He has made plenty of friends with other residents and staff.
Thank you Rebecca for such a heartfelt review. We're truly delighted that your uncle is happy, thriving, and enjoying being here at Iden Manor. Knowing we've made a positive difference to his wellbeing means so much to the whole team. We're committed to providing warm, personalised care every day, and your kind words really reaffirm that
My mother is very settled in this lovely home. The staff are fabulous, so friendly and very connected to the residents and they all clearly enjoy their job.
Thank you so much for your kind words. We're delighted to hear that your mother feels so settled here. Our team takes great pride in creating a homely and welcoming environment, and it means a lot to know their warmth and connection with residents shines through. We'll make sure to share your lovely feedback with the staff-it will really brighten their day.
My husband has just recently become a resident at Iden Manor. We have been overwhelmed by the care, consideration and friendliness of the Manager/s and staff. My husband has settled well and we are reassured that he will be receiving the best care possible. This has already become evident in the short time he has been there. We are so very grateful for everything. Thank you.
Thank you for your lovely words, we are all family at Iden Manor and we are thoroughly privileged to have had you join us.
My wife is not very well, and the staff at Eden Manor have been absolutely fantastic. They are very professional, and you can see that they really care. The setting, facilities and food are again excellent. 100% recommended
Thank you so much for taking the time to share such kind words and for entrusting us to care for someone so precious to you all. I have the honour of leading such a dedicated and caring team, and it's lovely to hear how much they've meant to you and your wife. I completely agree. They really are amazing, and your feedback will mean so much to them.
A lovely, friendly, caring home in glorious grounds. Nothing is too much trouble and the staff have gone out of their way to accommodate my husband who can be a difficult patient. The home manager has always made time for me when I have a query or question and there is always a cup of tea available. I am so thankful that my husband is in a happy environment where he is encouraged to thrive.
Thank you for your lovely words, it is always our pleasure.
The staff are so friendly, and helpful. My friend has been a resident for a few months. The property is clean and tidy, hygiene is immaculate. The residents have ladies who do the entertaining with them, for example bingo. The staff cannot do enough for you.
Thank you for your lovely works, we always love to hear that we are on the right track. Providing quality, personalised support for those living at Iden Manor is a commitment each and every staff member makes.
A beautiful facility with a host of great carers and nurses who are always on hand to either assist or just ready with a cheery word. The room is large and comfortable which we could fully personalise for dad. There are daily activities and residents are encouraged to participate. Dad is very happy there. He never has a bad word to say even if he does forget where he is. He has total freedom to wander the house or grounds and we feel relaxed knowing that someone is keeping theirs eyes on him. The staff are always open to suggestions or alterations in dad's car plan. The lounges are huge and lovely. You can sit alone and quietly or with others. There is so much space!
Thank you for your lovely words. It is always a pleasure to hear that our residents are enjoying being with us and that our residents families are reassured with this.
Incredible personalised care and support for my mum who has dementia and gets very anxious. Staff really pay attention to her emotional welfare alongside great practical support and care for her physical needs. Always very welcoming and hospitable when I, and other members of the family, visit. And it is a huge relief that mum is in such a kind and caring environment.
Thank you for you kind words. It is important for us to know what is working, so that we can continue to strive for excellence in our personalisation of care and support to all.
My sister came to Iden Manor in December 2023, and the manager and staff have been very attentive and helpful in making her settling-in months as smooth as possible. I feel that my sister is treated in every way as a person with particular needs and quirks. Every concern and suggestion made by myself and my sister's husband are not just listened to, but acted upon, from the furnishings and arrangements of her room to her needs for personal care and monitoring. Several months on, I am grateful to be experiencing a new peace of mind regarding my sister's well-being. Iden Manor provides a really home-like setting for its residents as well as a social environment that my sister can participate in or withdraw from as her mood and wellness each day allow.
Thank you for taking the time to provide a lovely response. Your sister is a remarkable lady, who deserves only the best. I am so pleased you are able to feel safe in knowing that she is safe and well. Please keep sharing ideas, and we promise to keep listening and acting so that we can be and provide the best and most personalised approach that we can.
Took Mum a while to settle in, but she now sees it as home, and the added touches of the snack bar, tea and coffee whenever, and the beautiful gardens have really helped. All the staff seem amazing particularly one lady who really helped her settle.
Thank you for the lovely review and thank you for entrusting us with your mum. I know moving in was hard for you both, and I am so pleased the team was able to support you with this. She is amazing and such an integral part of the Iden family.
Caring staff nothing is too much trouble. It is good to know my husband is in a safe and happy environment.
Thank you for the lovely feedback, we will always continue to do our best.
So welcoming and friendly. A very calm atmosphere. I'm very happy with where my mum is residing. My mum was clean and well dressed with her hair all neat and tidy. Was offered a cup of tea and biscuit.
Thank you very much for the lovely review Natalie. We absolutely love having your mum staying with us.
I was transferred from hospital, following sepsis, for assessment before returning home. I entered the care of Iden Manor Nursing Home on the 10th of January 2023 and left there for home on the 1st of February 2024. I am extremely grateful for the care I received from all of the staff. They were all kind to me and treated me with respect and understanding.
Thank you for the feedback, it was a pleasure having you stay with us and lovely to hear you are doing so well at home. Take care.
Regulatory Rating
Care Quality Commission (CQC) Rating
Date: 22 May 2025Good
- CaringGood
- EffectiveGood
- ResponsiveGood
- SafeGood
- Well-ledGood
Inspection ratings
We rate most services according to how safe, effective, caring, responsive and well-led they are, using four levels:
- Outstanding - The service is performing exceptionally well.
- Good - The service is performing well and meeting our expectations.
- Requires Improvement - The service isn't performing as well as it should and we have told the service how it must improve.
- Inadequate - The service is performing badly and we've taken action against the person or organisation that runs it.
- Not rated - we have not yet rated this area of the service, this is normally because the assessments we have carried out have been focused on other key questions.
Bed Vacancies
3 Bed Vacancies
Posted: 29 June 2026We have beds for residents in our older and frail and living with dementia services and we are supporting short respite and daycare. Please contact us to see how we can help you.
News (1) & Events (0)
- 12 Jun 2025
Umbreen David, owner of Iden Manor Nursing Home in Staplehurst Kent, takes top prize in cash grants. This year’s overall winner has been announced as Umbreen David, of Hoama Group...
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Meet the Team (1)

I, have been within the care industry since I was a young 18yr old girl, working as a healthcare worker in a nursing home, and shortly after commencing my mental health nurse training. I have always been passionate that the care and support that I offer is the best it can possibly be, and thus have continued to gain a breadth of experience in many different areas of health and social care, including obtaining MScs in both mental health and social work, and managing health and social care, and continued to also teach within both NHS and private care settings. Supporting people in need is such a privilege and one of the most rewarding jobs, challenging at times yes, but immensely rewarding. I too have travelled the journey with my mother when she was diagnosed with dementia, and I am fully understanding and empathetic as to the emotions, challenges and worries that are associated with having others caring for someone so precious. That is why I am so pleased to be with a team whom I am proud to say can deliver that caring, effective, responsive safe and loving environment we all want.”
Frequently Asked Questions about Iden Manor Nursing Home
What types of Care is Iden Manor Nursing Home registered for?
Older Person Care, Dementia, Mental Health Condition, Physical Disability, Visual / Hearing Impairment, Younger Adults are the registered (by the Care Quality Commission) categories of Care.
How many Rooms does Iden Manor Nursing Home have?
There are 51 Single Rooms.
What are the Facilities & Services at Iden Manor Nursing Home?
Own Furniture if required, Pet Friendly (or by arrangement), Close to Local shops, Near Public Transport, Minibus or other transport, Lift, Stairlift, Wheelchair Access, Gardens, Bar/Café, Residents Kitchenette, Phone Point in own room, Television point in own room, Residents Internet Access are some of the Facilities & Services.
How far is Iden Manor Nursing Home to the centre of Tonbridge?
12.8 mile(s) as the crow flies, distance by road may be significantly further.
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