
The strength of the home is definitely in the day-to-day care and dedication of all the staffS R(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

Her dignity has been a priority for the staff which we've been so relieved to see on a regular basisG Y(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

All bedrooms are ensuite and newly decorated. The shared lounge is light and airyC H(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

The strength of the home is definitely in the day-to-day care and dedication of all the staffS R(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

Her dignity has been a priority for the staff which we've been so relieved to see on a regular basisG Y(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

All bedrooms are ensuite and newly decorated. The shared lounge is light and airyC H(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

Oakdene is a privately owned and run residential and nursing home based in Three Legged Cross.
The home provides high-quality care 24 hours a day to all of its residents, with excellent facilities including residents' lounges and dining areas and peaceful garden areas.
Other facilities and services include chiropodists visits and weekly visits from the hairdressers, special assisted baths, lifts between floors and nutritious freshly cooked meals prepared by highly-skilled onsite chefs.
They provide dementia care in the purpose-built Acorn Lodge Unit.
Care Provided by Oakdene Care Home
Primary Care Categories
- Older Person Care
- Dementia
- Learning Disability / Autism
- Mental Health Condition
- Physical Disability
- Visual / Hearing Impairment
Length of Stay
- Permanent Care
- Respite Care
Care Types Provided
- Residential Care
- Dementia Residential Care
- For a maximum of 71 Service Users
Dementia Care TypesMild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
Mild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
- Mild Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
Other Care Provided
- Parkinson's Disease
- Palliative / End of Life Care
- Convalescent Care
Facilities
- Own Furniture if required
- Pet Friendly (or by arrangement)
- Close to Local shops
- Near Public Transport
- Lift
- Wheelchair Access
- Gardens
- Residents Kitchenette
- Phone Point in own room
- Television point in own room
- Residents Internet Access
Funding & Fees
Weekly Charges per Person
Fees are a guideline and can be confirmed depending on a needs assessment.
The price(s) shown are provided by the care home. Contact Oakdene Care Home for full pricing details and T&Cs.
Contact Oakdene Care Home to confirm what's included and get a personalised quote:
Funding Types Accepted
- Self-Funding (Private)
- Local Authority with Top-up
- Local Authority
- NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)
Good to Know
Group / Owner
- Care Concern Group Ltd
- Private Owned
Person in charge
- Helen Lacey(Home Manager)
Local Authority / Social Services
Admission Information
- Ages 65+
Care Home Design/Build
- Purpose Built: Yes
- Last Refurbishment: 2004
Room Information
- Single Rooms (71)
- Single Rooms with ensuite Wet Room (65)
Oakdene Care Home Reviews (67)
Oakdene Care Home has a Review Score of 8.3 (8.269) out of 10, based on 6 reviews in the last 2 years.
Over all time Oakdene Care Home has 67 reviews.
My mother has been a resident at Oakdene since October last year, we have found the general 'feel' of the home calming and well ordered. The staff are friendly, patient, and empathetic to the residents' needs. If we have any concerns we can always find a care, house manager or admin manager to assist us. We know we made the right choice (around many other EPDs) for mum to live at Oakdene. All of the above gives our family some peace of mind, which is so important to us.
Thank you so much for your kind words - it is a pleasure to care for your mother, and always lovely to see the family and furry friends!
My husband has been a resident since 27 March 2025. He suffers from Vascular Dementia and Alzheimer's together with Peripheral neuropathy and needs total care. He has been shown kindness, politeness and above all, patience from all staff even when his behaviour has been challenging. He enjoys the plentiful food from the varied menu very much. The 3 course Christmas meal was outstanding and the staff pulled out all the stops to make the day special for both residents and family. My husband enjoys visits with animals and musical activities. When he needs quiet the staff take him to the Sensory Room. I would add that I have very much appreciated the kindness & support I have been given from all staff.
Thank you so much for your kind words - it's a pleasure to have your husband as part of our family at Oakdene.
This review doesn't apply to any particular incident. Just wanted to say a few words! My husband has now been a resident in Oakdene Care Home for exactly three years, living with dementia. Not an easy time, but has been made easier by the assistance of all of the carers and staff in general. They are so caring to both my husband and myself. - My extended family! Thank you.
Thank you so much for taking the time to write your review - its always a pleasure to see you in the home. The staff will be very appreciative of your kind words
Mum settled at Oakdene Care Home very quickly, which was lovely. The staff have always been friendly, caring and supportive to mum. Qualified staff contact me to inform and discuss any changes to mums care package. eg. medication, specialist services, GP. The menu is varied but not always to mums liking. This has been fed back to the kitchen. The activity programme is good & residents are encouraged to attend. The gardener regularly calls in to see mum & keeps her up to date on whats going on in the garden. The admin team and management respond quickly & professionally to any care or financial queries.
Thank you so much for taking the time to submit a review. It is lovely to hear your feedback.
Every single member of the Oakdene staff were absolutely wonderful both to Dad and to his family. They all gave as much support and care to us as they gave to Dad. I can't thank you enough.
Thank you so much for taking the time to share this - it was a privilege to look after your Dad, he was a true gentleman.
There were insufficient staff for the number of residents.
The lifts were out of action for many months during this time.
Many of the staff are recruited from overseas and tied into long contracts that includes accommodation within the premises.
If staff themselves complain, they are told they no longer have a room, thus they leave on their own volition.
Sometimes failed to provide time critical meds on time.
Covered up when there was an outbreak out of scabies.
Staff not given sufficient time for each resident so record keeping done after the event.
When I asked to see the records for my Mum relating to many unwitnessed falls, I was told they had been archived by the previous manager.
Personal items went missing.
There were 3 changes of management in short succession.
Care fees went up by a ridiculous amount and higher than advertised.
Difficult to find a member of staff to let you out of the building.
Thank you for leaving a review. I am sorry that you had a negative experience last year. There have been a number of improvements over the last 12 months, and we are keen to work with families going forwards to ensure resident experience is as fulfilling as possible. As I am new in post I'm unable to comment in full on your feedback.
My mum has been at Oakdene Care Home for short-term respite for the last few weeks. The care she has received has been brilliant and the staff have constantly gone out of their way to ensure she is happy and safe. Her dignity has been a priority for the staff which we've been so relieved to see on a regular basis. The food is wonderful too!
Thank you so much for the lovely feedback, we are so pleased to hear that our team always go above and beyond to ensure your mum is happy and safe. We will ensure that this feedback is shared with our team.
My dad has only been here for 10 days but everyone has been very kind, friendly and helpful and he has settled well and feels safe and well looked after. Thank you.
Thank you so much for your feedback and we are so pleased that you are finding everyone to be kind, friendly and helpful.
My husband has only been here for two weeks, but so far, I am happy with his care. He needs plenty of activities to keep him stimulated, and two particular members of staff are very good at providing these.
Thank you so much for the lovely feedback, and we are pleased to hear that your husband is settling in well into the home and receiving plenty of activities.
Mum has been in Oakdene for just over two years. The strength of the home is definitely in the day-to-day care and dedication of all the staff, who always have Mum’s well-being at heart. We have recently appreciated the time spent with senior staff discussing Mum’s complex needs. We know she is being well looked after, which is so reassuring.
Thank you so much for the lovely review; it's wonderful to hear that our staff always have your mum's well-being at heart. We will ensure we share this wonderful feedback with the team.
To see Mum content and settled is very comforting and reassuring for me. The staff are wonderful, and all residents are treated with respect and, importantly, love!
Mum's individual needs are well catered for, and the home has a family feel to it. She enjoys time with the other residents and the food and entertainment provided. We have enjoyed some of the events Oakdene have put on for families to enjoy too. Barbeques in the Summer and Christmas tree decorating to name a couple; it's nice to feel included and to get to know other residents' families too.
All bedrooms are ensuite and newly decorated. The shared lounge is light and airy, with access to the enclosed garden for a sit in the sun and wander.
I would recommend Oakdene to anyone considering residential care for a loved one.
Thank you so much for the wonderful feedback regarding the team at Oakdene, and we are pleased to hear that you find the staff wonderful and that our residents are treated with respect and love. Take care.
My father is in respite care at Oakdene and has been treated with the utmost respect and warmth with a lovely carefree approach leading to an extended stay and a happy Dad. This comes on the back of numerous other homes letting the care community down with poor quality care. Keep up the good work, and thank you.
Thanks, Neil, for your lovely feedback in regard to Oakdene and how your father has been enjoying his respite stay with us. We will ensure we share this with the team. Take care.
The staff have been very helpful to me in helping my sister settle in. She is very happy at Oakdene, and she has settled in well and finds everyone very helpful. It is a lovely home and has lovely staff. She has had her hair done twice and also her feet. My sister has only been there a couple of weeks. Thank you so much.
Thank you so much, Cliff, for the lovely feedback we have received in relation to your sister and how happy she is at Oakdene and settling in well to the home. Take care.
The room is comfortable with a nice garden view and the en-suite bathroom makes life easy.
We feel comfortable knowing that Mum is in a safe environment and being looked after at all times.
Thank you for your review. It has been a pleasure to care your mum and we always look forward to you visiting.
My mother received excellent care in this small, homely care home and was very happy during the two years that she lived there. This gave me confidence for my sister to go there, initially for short term respite care. The personalised care that my sister received from the team of professional caring staff, during this period of respite care, has considerably improved her mental and physical health, making her a much happier and sociable person.
Thank you for your kind words, it's a privilege to look after your sister and we always look forward to your visits.
My introduction to Oakdene Care Home was rather sudden, after my mother had a stroke and we, the family, were unable to provide the constant care she required. I visited to look at a spare room, and the manager came to visit my mother for an assessment, and we decided on an initial 2 week respite package. I was immediately impressed by the thoughtfulness and compassion shown during quite a hard time. We dropped my mother off, frail at this point, and were worried about how she would get on, and within a week her condition was much improved. Since then, almost two months later, she has continued to improve, is eating well, gradually gaining strength, and while not wanting to leave her room much, is much healthier and in a better frame of mind. This, I am sure, is down to the quality of care; the staff are genuinely lovely, caring, thoughtful, and happy to help. Oakdene is a lovely home, and I don't think we could have found a better place for Mum.
Thank you so much for your kind words. It has been a pleasure to be able to care for your mother during her Respite stay at Oakdene. We are so proud of the team here at Oakdene, their dedication to their work shows.
Having reached crisis point with my 95-year-old mother who has Alzheimer's we contacted Oakdene Care Home to enquire about an initial period of respite. We spoke with the Deputy Manager who was compasionate and understanding about our situation. She lead us through the admission proceedure advising about testing and all other aspects of respite care. She responded quickly by both phone and e-mail and was very supportive during a very emotional and difficult time. When we arrived we were met by a lovely carer who immediately made my mother feel welcome. The en suite room we were given was roomy with plenty of storage and an adapted bathroom and a lovely garden view, perfect for her needs. Acorn Lodge was very clean and all the staff we encountered were engaging and kind. We were encouraged to take familiar items for her room which made the arrival easier. My Mother has now become a permanent resident on each visit the staff are engaging and kind, treating the residents as individuals.
Thank you for your kind words. The team at Oakdene and Acorn Lodge are passionate and dedicated to the residents here and we are very proud of them.
From my first enquiry, I have been nothing but impressed by the politeness, helpfulness and empathy shown to myself, my aunt and my uncle.
Acorn Lodge is a lovely environment-clean, light, airy yet homely. The staff are friendly, kind and more than willing to help with any questions or worries.
Covid restrictions are slowly easing and everyone does their best to work around them to ensure the residents are safe but still accessible to family and visitors.
There is always something going on at the home to entertain the residents, tea parties, visiting entertainers, crafts, quizzes, the list goes on.
My uncle and I really don't think we could have found a better home for my aunt to be cared for once we were no longer able to meet her growing needs.
Thank you for your review. Your aunt has settled into Acorn Lodge so well and is a pleasure to care for, she brightens up everyone's day with her smile.
We chose Oakdene for some respite care for my Dad who has Alzheimers Disease. From the initial point of contact through to admission, the team were responsive, caring and very flexible. During his stay, the care my Dad has received has been of a high standard, with good communication at regular intervals. Despite the Covid restrictions, we are able to visit him and take him out for walks. The home is warm and friendly, spotlessly clean and very calm, even when the staff are very busy. It has given us great comfort to know Dad is cared for and looked after here.
Thank you so much for such kind words. We are pleased to have been able to support safe visiting throughout the pandemic. The staff team have been fantastic throughout and work hard to maintain a safe, happy, 'home from home' atmosphere. Respite care is so beneficial to residents and their families, and we are thankful that we can provide this service at Oakdene.
My mother (and father) went into Acorn Lodge in 2017. We have always been very satisfied with the level of care provided by Oakdene staff and facilities. It's a shame they haven't been rewarded for all their dedication, as this is now apparent by the current high turnover of staff. I don't understand this, as the weekly care home fees are very high and increase each year are 10% or more.
Thank you for taking the time to send this review. The staff team at Oakdene are very valued and appreciated for the work they do. We have been fortunate to see some of our staff progress their careers and leave to pursue those. We are proud to have been part of their educational journey. The staff...
Regulatory Rating
Care Quality Commission (CQC) Rating
Date: 25 March 2025Requires improvement
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- Not rated - we have not yet rated this area of the service, this is normally because the assessments we have carried out have been focused on other key questions.
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Posted: 01 July 2026Offering residential, nursing and dementia care we welcome enquiries to our beautiful, purpose built luxury care home.
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Meet the Team (6)

Cherelle is the dedicated Deputy Manager of Oakdene Care Home

Remy has been at Oakdene since the beginning of 2022. Remy has worked her way up from a carer to Head of department in activities. Remy thoroughly enjoys planning trips for our residents to enjoy and most of all seeing them happy makes her happy.

Ben has worked at Oakdene since 2012. Ben is responsible for the overall cleanliness of the home. He is passionate about promoting a culture of good practice within his team of 5 housekeepers. Ben is often found completing word games with residents in the lounges!

Richard serves as the Head of Maintenance at Oakdene Care Home. Dedicated to ensuring a safe, comfortable, and well-maintained environment for residents, staff and visitors, Richard leads the maintenance team with a proactive and detail-oriented approach.

Tom is the dedicated gardener at Oakdene Care Home creating a vibrant, welcoming outdoor space for residents, staff and visitors.
Known for his green thumb and friendly nature, Tom takes pride in maintaining the home's gardens.
Tom believes that gardening has a powerful role in supporting wellbeing, and he often involves residents in light gardening activities, encouraging connection with the outdoors.
Whether he’s planting a new rose bush or simply chatting with a resident during his rounds, Tom’s presence adds life and warmth to the Oakdene community.

Sharon is our receptionist here at Oakdene.
She takes pride in getting to know our residents and their loved ones as well as being a familiar, friendly face that you can count on to brighten your day.
Frequently Asked Questions about Oakdene Care Home
What types of Care is Oakdene Care Home registered for?
Older Person Care, Dementia, Learning Disability / Autism, Mental Health Condition, Physical Disability, Visual / Hearing Impairment are the registered (by the Care Quality Commission) categories of Care.
How many Rooms does Oakdene Care Home have?
There are 71 Single Rooms.
What are the Facilities & Services at Oakdene Care Home?
Own Furniture if required, Pet Friendly (or by arrangement), Close to Local shops, Near Public Transport, Lift, Wheelchair Access, Gardens, Residents Kitchenette, Phone Point in own room, Television point in own room, Residents Internet Access are some of the Facilities & Services.
How far is Oakdene Care Home to the centre of Wimborne Minster?
5.4 mile(s) as the crow flies, distance by road may be significantly further.
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