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Care Provided by Barnes Lodge
Primary Care Categories
- Older Person Care
- Dementia
- Physical Disability
- Visual / Hearing Impairment
Length of Stay
- Permanent Care
- Respite Care
Care Types Provided
- Residential Care
- Nursing Care
- Dementia Residential Care
- Dementia Nursing Care
- For a maximum of 101 Service Users
Dementia Care TypesMild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
Mild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
- Mild Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
Other Care Provided
- Palliative / End of Life Care
- Convalescent Care
Facilities
- Own Furniture if required
- Pet Friendly (or by arrangement)
- Close to Local shops
- Near Public Transport
- Lift
- Wheelchair Access
- Gardens
- Residents Kitchenette
- Phone Point in own room
- Television point in own room
- Residents Internet Access
Funding & Fees
Weekly Charges per Person
All Fees are subject to a free pre-admission assessment. Please contact us for more information or to visit the home.
The price(s) shown are provided by the care home. Contact Barnes Lodge for full pricing details and T&Cs.
Contact Barnes Lodge to confirm what's included and get a personalised quote:
Funding Types Accepted
- Self-Funding (Private)
- Local Authority with Top-up
- Local Authority
- NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)
Support you may be entitled to
- If you chose a care home based in England, you may be eligible for NHS Funded Nursing Care (FNC), which helps cover the cost of nursing. This is worth £267.68 per week and is usually paid directly to the care home.
Good to Know
Group / Owner
- Avante Care & Support
- Voluntary / Not for Profit Owned
Person in charge
- Tonderai Chinyanda (Home Manager)
Local Authority / Social Services
Admission Information
- Mixed (no single-gender units)
- Ages 65+
Care Home Design/Build
- Purpose Built: Yes
- Last Refurbishment: 2016
- Number of floors: 3
Room Information
- Single Rooms (101)
- Single Rooms with ensuite Wet Room (101)
Visiting
- Visitors welcome at any time, but the home would appreciate it if visitors could avoid meal times as that can disturb the residents.
Parking
- Parking outside Barnes Lodge
Barnes Lodge Reviews (28)
Barnes Lodge has a Review Score of 8.8 (8.797) out of 10, based on 9 reviews in the last 2 years.
Over all time Barnes Lodge has 28 reviews.
In a world that isn't always kind, Barnes Lodge consistently proves itself to be full of kindness. All the staff have shown my Nan kindness and care since she moved in and I have seen first hand the staff going above and beyond for her.
I find the staff very friendly & helpful, and always when we go to see our friend she is very contented and happy, which is all we can ask for.
Since has moved to Barnes Lodge he is now finally getting the care he needs and deserves. The staff and nurses at are attentive, kind and treat my husband well. They always keep me up to date with any concerns about his health or well being. There are staff members who go above and beyond to ensure his well being and are a great comfort to him. I am happier knowing he is happy.
What truly sets Barns Lodge apart is the dedication of certain team members who consistently go above and beyond, making a real difference in the lives of the residents. Their compassionate approach has fostered a supportive environment that enhances overall well-being.
We have observed a remarkable improvement in my father-in-law's mental health and overall condition, which brings us immense relief and gratitude. The sense of community at Barns Lodge is comforting and reassuring.
Overall, I highly recommend Barns Lodge for anyone seeking compassionate and high-quality care for their loved ones. The positive changes we've witnessed have made a significant impact, and we are incredibly thankful for the outstanding care he receives.
My aunt arrived in late Dec 2024, she settled in very quickly, she is happy and very well cared for.
She and we have had very positive and friendly interactions with everyone on the staff team.
My aunt is treated with dignity, she is sleeping well at night, she enjoys the meals and she has made friends with other residents and the staff.
There is a positive welcoming feel. The team organise interesting activites-they provide suitable events for a range of residents' needs.
My aunt likes and looks forward to her weekly visit to the in house hairdresser.
The building is well designed, generously sized, full of natural light, freshly decorated and kept very clean. My aunt likes her room with en suite, and there are also several pleasant common rooms available that she can sit in or attend activities in.
She likes the library, where there are books to borrow and board games to play.
My brother has been a resident at Barnes Lodge for eleven months now, I can compare his care because he was at another care home previously. I cannot express my thanks enough to the staff and management! Nothing is too much trouble, from when we arrive to visit until we leave, I have noticed a vast improvement in his care and cleanliness from his previous care home. Staff are always kind and engaging with my brother, who I must say, doesn't always appreciate this because of his learning difficulties.
Thank you, Kevin, for your kind words and we are so pleased you are happy with the care provided at Barnes Lodge.
Dad looked happy and content, neatly looking despite still wearing his PJ top. But most importantly, he seemed comfortable and happy which seems to be this way every time I visit him.
So clean and pleasant surroundings, polite staff and I'm very happy that my father is being looked after at Barnes Lodge.
Thank you for your kind words and your valuable feedback.
Best care home I have found in the area.
Thank you so much for your kind words and we are so pleased you are happy with the care provided at Barnes Lodge.
A member of staff has helped Mum to integrate with activities.
A member of staff on reception has always been supportive.
Thank you everyone.
Thank you so much for your positive feedback. We are so pleased you are happy with the care at Barnes Lodge.
I have been extremely happy with the care given and the staff have been very pleasant. Thank you.
The home is bright and airy and has recently undergone some redecoration and work to improve safety measures. All this helps to make a better environment for residents and visitors.
Mum has lived at Barnes Lodge for two years. Overall, she has been well looked after by caring staff. Although she is physically frail with diminishing mobility, she still has good mental capacity, I think this is not always recognised fully. It would be helpful if a 'who's who' board of staff could be displayed. It would also be good to see a weekly menu and weekly activity programme on display. Refurbishments look good.
Thank you for taking the time to review Barnes Lodge, it is much appreciated. The weekly menu is displayed in the dining rooms, but we will look into displaying them and the weekly activities more prominently. The 'staff board' is a great idea and we are considering options of how and where is best to display it. Thank you again for your positive comments.
Selecting a care home can be a hit-and-miss exercise but my family and I give thanks that we found Barnes Lodge and I have no hesitation whatsoever in recommending it as a caring and safe sanctuary.
Thank you for taking the time to review Barnes Lodge. Your positive, kind comments are very much appreciated by all the staff here at Barnes Lodge
I am very grateful for the excellent care that my Mum received at Barnes Lodge during the final few months of her life. She was always treated kindly by the nursing and care staff who helped her to keep her dignity throughout and tried hard to respect her preferences. We felt that there was a positive, helpful attitude from all the staff that we encountered. The visiting GP service at the home was excellent too. The facilities provided to Mum in her room and elsewhere were practical and fit for purpose. Visiting procedures at Barnes Lodge worked pretty well during a difficult time and the administrative staff were always friendly and warm towards us, whether in person or on the phone. I strongly recommend Barnes Lodge.
Thank you very much for your kind review, it was an absolute pleasure to look after Mum and she will be deeply missed.
My mother has been a resident at Barnes Lodges for five and a half years. The family have always been very appreciative of the excellent care given to her. Last year my father was also a resident for a short period of time, until his death, and again excellent care shown. In the current pandemic, we have appreciated the virtual contact and recently distanced visits.
My mum has been in Barnes Lodge since it opened, I work in the care sector so knew what I wanted for her. Barnes Lodge has exceeded my expectations, with a dedicated team who always give the residents just that little bit extra. The manager is outstanding, always prepared to give her time to me, my mum and all the residents. She has made Barnes Lodge "a home". The laundry, the kitchen and the cleaning staff, and the wonderful care staff make Barnes Lodge a wonderful place. Thank you.
My mother constantly comments on the kindness that the carer is.
Staff very attentive and friendly.
Care and environment are very good.
The staff in general are very friendly and helpful to patients and visitors and caring to patients.
Thank you for your review and kind words, we are so pleased you’re happy with Barnes Lodge.
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Frequently Asked Questions about Barnes Lodge
What types of Care is Barnes Lodge registered for?
Older Person Care, Dementia, Physical Disability, Visual / Hearing Impairment are the registered (by the Care Quality Commission) categories of Care.
How many Rooms does Barnes Lodge have?
There are 101 Single Rooms.
What are the Facilities & Services at Barnes Lodge?
Own Furniture if required, Pet Friendly (or by arrangement), Close to Local shops, Near Public Transport, Lift, Wheelchair Access, Gardens, Residents Kitchenette, Phone Point in own room, Television point in own room, Residents Internet Access are some of the Facilities & Services.
How far is Barnes Lodge to the centre of Tonbridge?
0.9 mile(s) as the crow flies, distance by road may be significantly further.
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