
The kindness, care, and friendship from the carers and staff was wonderfulLesley W(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

The staff are always friendly and welcoming, the building is kept cleanMark C(Son of Resident/Service User)

Well done to all the staff and Management at Oakleigh and thank you !Charles A(Nephew of Resident/Service User)

The kindness, care, and friendship from the carers and staff was wonderfulLesley W(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

The staff are always friendly and welcoming, the building is kept cleanMark C(Son of Resident/Service User)

Well done to all the staff and Management at Oakleigh and thank you !Charles A(Nephew of Resident/Service User)

Anchor’s Oakleigh is located at the heart of Godstone, close to green spaces. The home provides friendly and comfortable residential and dementia care for up to 51 residents in single en suite rooms and continues to welcome new residents.
Oakleigh can assist with trial and shorter stays, as well as long term and permanent care.
Oakleigh provides on-going training to ensure their approach is best for residents living with dementia.
Care Provided by Oakleigh
Primary Care Categories
- Older Person Care
- Dementia
Length of Stay
- Permanent Care
- Respite Care
Care Types Provided
- Residential Care
- Dementia Residential Care
- For a maximum of 51 Service Users
Dementia Care TypesMild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
Mild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
- Mild Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
Facilities
- Own Furniture if required
- Pet Friendly (or by arrangement)
- Close to Local shops
- Near Public Transport
- Minibus or other transport
- Lift
- Wheelchair Access
- Gardens
- Residents Kitchenette
- Phone Point in own room
- Television point in own room
Funding & Fees
Weekly Charges per Person
Fees can vary depending on care needs and other factors. Colleagues at Oakleigh will be happy to discuss our weekly fees with you and what our fees include.
The price(s) shown are provided by the care home. Contact Oakleigh for full pricing details and T&Cs.
Contact Oakleigh to confirm what's included and get a personalised quote:
Funding Types Accepted
- Self-Funding (Private)
- Local Authority with Top-up
- Local Authority
- NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)
Good to Know
Group / Owner
- Anchor
- Voluntary / Not for Profit Owned
Person in charge
- Tabitha Harrison-Lyons(Manager)
Local Authority / Social Services
Admission Information
- Mixed (no single-gender units)
- Ages 65+
Care Home Design/Build
- Purpose Built: Yes
Room Information
- Single Rooms (51)
- Single Rooms with ensuite Wet Room (13)
Visiting
- Visitors are welcome at Oakleigh.
Parking
- Onsite parking is available, including disabled spaces.
Oakleigh Reviews (76)
Oakleigh has a Review Score of 9.8 (9.840) out of 10, based on 23 reviews in the last 2 years.
Over all time Oakleigh has 76 reviews.
My nan has been so happy with the care received at Oakleigh, the minute you walk in the home it is so welcoming, everyone is very friendly and helpful. My nan has made lots of lovely friends residents and staff
I found Oakleigh Care Home by recommendation when my elderly mother needed 24-hour assistance. The management team helped to make the transition from house to care home as easy as possible and the care staff are reactive and attentive to all my mother's needs. My family and I are made welcome when visiting and we feel at ease in the surroundings and when using the care home facilities. The food is freshly prepared and of a good standard and there is variety. The rooms are clean and odour free. Every effort is made to keep the residents entertained and amused and there is a very pleasant garden. My mother may not understand her situation anymore, but we as a family rest assured that she is in safe hands at Oakleigh.
I am extremely grateful for the continued care my mother receives from the wonderful staff at Oakleigh. At the end of this month, she will have been a resident for two years, and during this time I have witnessed a level of care, and affection toward my mother that means so much to me, my Father, and all of Joan's family. Thank you. Kevin.
Our late dad, a WW2 veteran, passed away in his own bed at Oakleigh aged 104. He spent the last three years of his life at Oakleigh and he was very settled, happy and felt safe. We think going to Oakleigh gave him a new lease of life. The kindness, care, and friendship from the carers and staff was wonderful and he loved the activities and entertainment. We really appreciate the support given to dad and my husband and I in those last few days. We will always be grateful that he spent the final chapter of his long life at Oakleigh Care Home. It is a special place.
My Mum's experience staying here to date has been overwhelmingly positive. Moving into reidential care at the start of 2025 was a big move but the team have really helped her to settle in. The staff are always friendly and welcoming, the building is kept clean and nothing is too much trouble.
The staff are always friendly and smiling and look after my Aunt very well and always pleased to see us too when we visit.
She is very much enjoying the company of her friends there and activities which she does on a daily basis .
She is excited for Christmas festivities at Oakleigh .
Well done to all the staff and Management at Oakleigh and thank you !
She has her wits about her and is a tough cookie but her memory isn't great.
Well, she has never been happier. She praises the staff virtually every time I speak to her. On my visits, I can see how the staff are inter acting with other residents as well as the general warmth of the place. Staff are accommodating and respectful in all circumstances.
Day trips, events and a real effort to make the place a pleasant environment.
She doesn't want to leave and loves the staff.
This is a big relief and it's changed her life. She's very happy . Happy mum , happy son.
Well done Oakleigh and thank you
As a family, we are truly grateful for the kindness, patience and dedication shown every day from the staff at Oakleigh to our dear Mum. Mum has been a very happy resident at Oakleigh for over 18 months. After a recent fall and subsequent hospital stay the staff at Oakleigh have worked so hard, going above and beyond in order to help rehabilitate Mum. Words can't express how much comfort It brings us knowing Mum is in such safe and caring hands.
Dad and our family have been made very welcome at Oakleigh. It has a lovely, calm atmosphere and a selection of planned activities to keep him busy.
Unfortunately my mother passed away on the 1st October, having spent 3 very happy years in Oakleigh. I cannot thank the staff enough for their care, dedication and commitment looking after Mum. Oakleigh is a happy and cheerful home
My father has been a resident at Oakleigh Care Home in Godstone for over two years, and I honestly can't praise the team highly enough. From the very beginning, they've shown not just professionalism, but genuine warmth and compassion that makes all the difference.
When I visit, I often find my father asleep, but I always see the team checking in on him, making sure he's comfortable, well-fed, and given the opportunity to join in with activities - even though he rarely can now. That level of care and attention reassures us that he is treated with dignity and respect at every stage.
It's never easy to watch a loved one decline, but knowing he is surrounded by such kindness and patience brings us enormous comfort. As a family, we are deeply grateful to everyone at Oakleigh. It truly is a special place, and I wouldn't hesitate to recommend the team there.
Since my mum moved into Oakleigh she has gone from strength to strength. She eats well and the chef is always around to speak to residents to make sure their dietary needs are met. She has gained weight which is marvellous .Yes it was daunting at first, but all the staff are lovely. Mum is partially sighted as well as having dementia, which can be very difficult to settle anywhere. The staff always include her in all activities such as singing and wine tasting. She loved it. They have managed to get her knitting again and the icing on the cake was her trip out with them. She hasn't stopped telling us all about it, and the ice cream she had. Any issues the Managers are always available to assist. I can't thank all the staff enough for making her feel part of such a lovely family.
The staff, from the excellent leadership team, to the daily care givers and all of the other team members have been kindhearted, supportive, flexible and generally 'top notch.'
Dad's room is on the ground floor with a view out to the garden. One of the reasons that it works for him with his mobility and stability issues, is that it is modern, all on one level and has a wet room with grab rails and shower seat. Dad has been given aids such as an alarm mat on the floor and a grab rail on the bed, and his buzzer is always nearby.
There is a GP who visits weekly, hairdresser and a chiropodist.
As a family, we are hugely grateful to everyone at Oakleigh for their care, and keeping dad safe and would happily recommend to others.
Always friendly staff when we go and it's nice to see the residents have the option to do activities etc x
From the 1st day we felt this was a place where Mum would be safe and well cared for. Staff were friendly and responsive and always dealt with any questions or issues with courtesy and understanding. We asked if Mum could move floors and do more activities and this was granted to us. The home was always clean and Mum was well fed and all her needs catered for. I would have no hesitation recommending Oakleigh to others.
My mother is a resident at Oakleigh. She is very happy there and is well cared for. The staff are always friendly and professional and the home is always clean and well presented. A lot of effort is put into providing activities for the residents and there is a lovely atmosphere. Highly recommended.
When I visit my mum, the staff make me feel very welcome and at ease. I really feel they know and meet my mum's individual needs.
Oakleigh in my opinion is a great Care Hime it is welcoming, homely and spotlessly clean. Whenever I visit my mum has care staff with her or in sight, and I have no worries regarding her health and wellbeing living here. Food always looks delicious, staff are dedicated.
It seems sad to me that I will not be going there every week now but I can say that they deserve a very high ranking with care homes as experience has shown that they are not all the same and Oakleigh must be rated high.
Regulatory Rating
Care Quality Commission (CQC) Rating
Date: 12 April 2018Good
- CaringGood
- EffectiveGood
- ResponsiveGood
- SafeGood
- Well-ledGood
Inspection ratings
We rate most services according to how safe, effective, caring, responsive and well-led they are, using four levels:
- Outstanding - The service is performing exceptionally well.
- Good - The service is performing well and meeting our expectations.
- Requires Improvement - The service isn't performing as well as it should and we have told the service how it must improve.
- Inadequate - The service is performing badly and we've taken action against the person or organisation that runs it.
- Not rated - we have not yet rated this area of the service, this is normally because the assessments we have carried out have been focused on other key questions.
Bed Vacancies
Please contact us for latest vacancies.
News (2) & Events (0)
- 19 Dec 2025
Residents and colleagues at Anchor care homes across Surrey are embracing the festive spirit in style. From crafting Christmas decorations and singing carols, to decorating trees and baking festive treats,...
- 09 Oct 2024
Anchor, England’s largest not-for-profit provider of housing and care for people in later life, has received platinum status in the RSPCA’s annual PawPrints Awards for the second year in a...
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Meet the Team (2)

Hello, I’m Tabitha, the Home Manager. I’ve worked in care at Oakleigh for over 10 years and truly enjoy creating a safe, welcoming and warm environment for residents, families, and staff. I am passionate about providing person-centred care and enhancing all residents' well-being with new and innovative ways to ensure their care needs are met! My door is always open, whether you have a question, concern, or just want a friendly chat!

Hi, I’m Tanya, Deputy Manager here at the home. I have worked at Oakleigh for ten years, working from care assistant, to team leader and now in my current role as deputy. I am highly driven and passionate about supporting the care team in delivering high-quality, person-centred care each day. I am driven to ensure our home is up to speed with current technology and in the world of digital planning to ensure live updates are present for our residents, supporting more effective and responsive care!
Frequently Asked Questions about Oakleigh
What types of Care is Oakleigh registered for?
Older Person Care, Dementia are the registered (by the Care Quality Commission) categories of Care.
How many Rooms does Oakleigh have?
There are 51 Single Rooms.
What are the Facilities & Services at Oakleigh?
Own Furniture if required, Pet Friendly (or by arrangement), Close to Local shops, Near Public Transport, Minibus or other transport, Lift, Wheelchair Access, Gardens, Residents Kitchenette, Phone Point in own room, Television point in own room are some of the Facilities & Services.
How far is Oakleigh to the centre of Godstone?
0.3 mile(s) as the crow flies, distance by road may be significantly further.
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