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The Lilacs provides residents with a warm, friendly and caring living environment.
A team of professional care staff The Lilacs Residential Home are fully equipped to provide high-quality care and support to all of their residents.
Care Provided by The Lilacs Residential Home
Primary Care Categories
- Older Person Care
- Dementia
- Mental Health Condition
- Physical Disability
- Visual / Hearing Impairment
Length of Stay
- Permanent Care
- Respite Care
Care Types Provided
- Residential Care
- Dementia Residential Care
- For a maximum of 29 Service Users
Dementia Care Types
- Mild Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
- Advanced/Complex Dementia
Other Care Provided
- Palliative / End of Life Care
- Day Care
Facilities
- Own Furniture if required
- Pet Friendly (or by arrangement)
- Smoking not permitted
- Close to Local shops
- Near Public Transport
- Minibus or other transport
- Lift
- Wheelchair Access
- Gardens
- Television point in own room
- Residents Internet Access
Funding & Fees
Weekly Charges per Person
Contact The Lilacs Residential Home to confirm what's included and get a personalised quote:
The price(s) shown are provided by the care home. Contact The Lilacs Residential Home for full pricing details and T&Cs.
Funding Types Accepted
- Self-Funding (Private)
- Local Authority with Top-up
- Local Authority
- NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)
Good to Know
Group / Owner
- Stonehaven Care Group
- Private Owned
Person in charge
- Toni Brealey (Registered Manager)
Local Authority / Social Services
Admission Information
- Ages 65+
Care Home Design/Build
- Purpose Built: No
Room Information
- Single Rooms (29)
- Single Rooms with ensuite Wet Room (2)
Visiting
- Visitors welcome at any time. It is asked that visitors be as considerate as possible so avoid visiting before 9.30am and after 9.30pm. Upon arrival all visitors will be asked to sign in (and to sign out upon departure) - there's regulatory requirements for this, not least with regards to Fire Regulations - The Lilacs Residential Home needs to know exactly who is in the building at all times. If you leave without signing out it will be assumed that your still in the building - which could have serious consequences for others. Please do not be offended if you are asked for identification - the home is simply protecting their residents.
Parking
- There is limited parking on site at the rear of the property. There is also on street parking on the road outside The Lilacs.
The Lilacs Residential Home Reviews (49)
The Lilacs Residential Home has a Review Score of 9.3 (9.254) out of 10, based on 18 reviews in the last 2 years.
Over all time The Lilacs Residential Home has 49 reviews.
My mum is receiving good quality care. Everyone is kind and caring to her. She can be difficult and doesn't want to mix or join in but the carers always ask her if she wants to, even knowing that she will decline. We live about 70 miles away and the home always updates us on mums progress and...
My mum is receiving good quality care. Everyone is kind and caring to her. She can be difficult and doesn't want to mix or join in but the carers always ask her if she wants to, even knowing that she will decline. We live about 70 miles away and the home always updates us on mums progress and how she is. If ever she has a fall or needs anything medical, then the carers will contact us to let us know.
Good morning Tim P. Thank you so much for taking the time to write this really lovely 5 / 5 star review of your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really nice to read that your mum is receiving good quality care and that everybody is kind to her. Also, that...
Good morning Tim P. Thank you so much for taking the time to write this really lovely 5 / 5 star review of your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really nice to read that your mum is receiving good quality care and that everybody is kind to her. Also, that you receive regular updates as and when there are changes in her care needs etc. Thank you again for your kind words, they will be greatly appreciated by our care team at The Lilacs. Kindest regards, Nathan.
My Dad has been at the Lilacs for 3 months now, and after a tough period for Dad adjusting to the home the staff have been very patient and accommodating and Dad has settled down and enjoys the environment there. It's always a nice atmosphere when I visit and everyone is very friendly.
My Dad has been at the Lilacs for 3 months now, and after a tough period for Dad adjusting to the home the staff have been very patient and accommodating and Dad has settled down and enjoys the environment there. It's always a nice atmosphere when I visit and everyone is very friendly.
Hello Paul. Thank you for taking the time to write and publish this lovely review of your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really lovely to read that you Dad has now settled at The Lilacs, that the care team have been patient and accommodating and that he...
Hello Paul. Thank you for taking the time to write and publish this lovely review of your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really lovely to read that you Dad has now settled at The Lilacs, that the care team have been patient and accommodating and that he enjoys the environment. Your kind words will be greatly appreciated by our team at The Lilacs. Thank you again. Nathan.
Since my auntie has been in The Lilacs she has settled in well and seems happy. I have found on visiting that the way the staff care is really quite touching and certainly have no complaints. The manager and deputy manager are always very willing to communicate either by phone or email which is...
Since my auntie has been in The Lilacs she has settled in well and seems happy. I have found on visiting that the way the staff care is really quite touching and certainly have no complaints. The manager and deputy manager are always very willing to communicate either by phone or email which is comforting as I live a long way away. Trust them completely.
Good morning Angie K. Thank you so much for taking the time to write and publish this really positive review of your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's lovely to read that your auntie has settled in well and seems happy. Also lovely to read how you have found...
Good morning Angie K. Thank you so much for taking the time to write and publish this really positive review of your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's lovely to read that your auntie has settled in well and seems happy. Also lovely to read how you have found the care and management teams to be really good, kind and helpful. Your final words, 'trust them completely' are powerful and will be treated with great respect by the team. Thank you again, Nathan.
I find The Lilacs to be a very friendly and welcoming home to everyone who visits and lives there. My mother has resided at The Lilacs for over two years now and she has done so well. To lose your partner of over 60 years is devastating but all the staff have helped her through her loss. Mum has...
The staff work extremely hard throughout the day and take great care of residents, sometimes under great pressure. They deal brilliantly and efficiently with all situations, even though it is obvious that they are short staffed.
The staff are a credit to the company but there is a need for more staff to ensure that the home continues to be of high quality.
I have to be honest I didn't want my mother to go into a home but I am now so grateful for The Lilacs as I know she is well looked after and very happy.
Thank you Lilacs.
Thank you for your kind words. It is lovely to read about how well your mum is being looked after at The Lilacs and how great the care team there are. I have to address the suggestion that we are ever short staffed at The Lilacs. If we were short staffed we would likely not be able to deliver the...
Thank you for your kind words. It is lovely to read about how well your mum is being looked after at The Lilacs and how great the care team there are. I have to address the suggestion that we are ever short staffed at The Lilacs. If we were short staffed we would likely not be able to deliver the high quality of service that your mum is benefitting from. Our care home managers have full control over staffing levels and our rota is created in line with the care needs of the residents living there at any given time. We have comprehensive back-up contracts in place with agency providers should we ever find our in house team unable to fill the rota (short term absence sickness or longer term recruitment gaps). The rota meets the care needs of our residents and our care fees are calculated in accordance with those care needs. Extra care hours could be provided, but at extra cost. Please let the home know if you would like to discuss this option. Kindest regards, Nathan.
My experience whilst visiting my friend Joy over the last month has been very good & all the staff very helpful & caring. I am 93 myself & if I needed care I would be happy to be there.
My experience whilst visiting my friend Joy over the last month has been very good & all the staff very helpful & caring. I am 93 myself & if I needed care I would be happy to be there.
Good afternoon MC. Thank you for taking the time to leave this very positive review of your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really nice to read that your experience whilst visiting your friend, Joy, have been very good and that the care team are very...
Good afternoon MC. Thank you for taking the time to leave this very positive review of your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really nice to read that your experience whilst visiting your friend, Joy, have been very good and that the care team are very helpful and caring. Of course, your final words are a significant endorsement - thank you again! Kindest regards, Nathan.
My wife is treated very well and that is all that matters, my only complaint is the quality on of the food.
My wife is treated very well and that is all that matters, my only complaint is the quality on of the food.
Good morning Andy W. Thank you for this feedback. It's really good to read that you wife is treated very well. I am surprised and concerned to read that you / your wife is / are unhappy with the quality of the food. I know we have gone to great lengths to ensure that we source the very best food...
Good morning Andy W. Thank you for this feedback. It's really good to read that you wife is treated very well. I am surprised and concerned to read that you / your wife is / are unhappy with the quality of the food. I know we have gone to great lengths to ensure that we source the very best food options available - best for quality, choice and ability to tailor to the specific needs of our residents - bespoke diets for nutritional value, for allergy issues, for consistency (in relation to ease of chewing / swallowing) etc. Please do arrange to meet with our registered manager at The Lilacs to discuss any concerns that you may have - again - I was very actively involved in sourcing the very best food provision and consider it to be an area in which we excel. Kindest regards, Nathan.
Mums needs have changed quite a lot recently and I'm delighted by the way in which her care plan has been adapted to ensure her wellbeing care and happiness. All staff are fully aware of the care that mum needs which they deliver with empathy and humility. Mum continues to receive excellent care at...
Mums needs have changed quite a lot recently and I'm delighted by the way in which her care plan has been adapted to ensure her wellbeing care and happiness. All staff are fully aware of the care that mum needs which they deliver with empathy and humility. Mum continues to receive excellent care at The Lilacs.
Good afternoon Lorraine. Thank you so much for taking the time to leave this really positive review of our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really lovely to read how happy you are with the care that your mum is receiving, how the care team have adapted to her changing care...
Good afternoon Lorraine. Thank you so much for taking the time to leave this really positive review of our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really lovely to read how happy you are with the care that your mum is receiving, how the care team have adapted to her changing care needs and that she continues to receive excellent care. Feedback such as yours is so important to our care teams - peoples whose work can so easily go without the praise and recognition that it deserves. Thank you again and kindest regards, Nathan.
The Lilacs has proved a friendly and caring home for my mother. She seems to be happy and settled there. I and my family are satisfied with the care she receives. I find the staff (and management) respond well to any criticism that comes their way, and I am grateful for that. Food is great, and her...
The Lilacs has proved a friendly and caring home for my mother. She seems to be happy and settled there. I and my family are satisfied with the care she receives. I find the staff (and management) respond well to any criticism that comes their way, and I am grateful for that. Food is great, and her room is kept clean (although I have had to request a clean once). Her bible has gone missing and not found and residents often go into her room unexpectedly.
Good morning David. Thank you for taking the time to leave this feedback. It's lovely to read that you find The Lilacs to be a friendly and caring home and that your mum seems to be happy and settled. Thankyou also for the kind words about the management and care team in general. And the positive...
Good morning David. Thank you for taking the time to leave this feedback. It's lovely to read that you find The Lilacs to be a friendly and caring home and that your mum seems to be happy and settled. Thankyou also for the kind words about the management and care team in general. And the positive feedback regarding the food. I am pleased to report that your Mum's bible has been found in a silver bag in her wardrobe. It's difficult to prevent residents from wandering into each others rooms - room doors can be locked but that generally creates the wrong atmosphere. I can only ask that you encourage your Mum to use her call bell if this does happen so one of the care team can attend and ask any resident who has entered to leave. Of course, if this is a persistent issues then please discuss with the care home manager so we can explore any other possible solutions. Again, thank you for your kind feedback. Kindest regards, Nathan.
The staff and management work very hard and as a team. There is always someone available to talk to regarding mum. Plans are discussed properly.
The staff and management work very hard and as a team. There is always someone available to talk to regarding mum. Plans are discussed properly.
Good morning David. Thank you for taking the time to write and leave this 4 / 5 out of 5 star rating of your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. Thank you for your kind words about are care and management teams. It's great to read that your mum is being well looked after. Kindest regards, Nathan.
I have been visiting my very elderly and frail mother in The Lilacs for 3 years now. The most important things to me are that she is cared for and safe. She is undoubtedly both of those things. I cannot speak highly enough about the staff. Patient, caring, hard-working and all with a much-needed...
I have been visiting my very elderly and frail mother in The Lilacs for 3 years now. The most important things to me are that she is cared for and safe. She is undoubtedly both of those things. I cannot speak highly enough about the staff. Patient, caring, hard-working and all with a much-needed sense of humour. I have to travel a considerable distance to visit, and they look after their visitors, too. I always receive a very warm welcome.
There is not much to say I find the home excellent I gave lower results on management because there isn't a manager in place at the moment. Only temporary at the moment. The food is a bit repetitive and there is much waste but overall the staff are friendly and caring. The staff are friendly and...
There is not much to say I find the home excellent I gave lower results on management because there isn't a manager in place at the moment. Only temporary at the moment. The food is a bit repetitive and there is much waste but overall the staff are friendly and caring. The staff are friendly and caring and the cleanliness is fantastic. Keep up the great work.
Good morning Bryan. Thank you for this kind and positive feedback relating to your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. Noting your comments about Management - The Lilacs is currently being ably supported by Emma, our Deputy Manager, along with regular on-site...
Good morning Bryan. Thank you for this kind and positive feedback relating to your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. Noting your comments about Management - The Lilacs is currently being ably supported by Emma, our Deputy Manager, along with regular on-site support from members of our Support office Team and other Managers within the group. We are currently actively recruiting a new manager and hope to be able to formally communicate a name and start date within a week or two. I'm surprised about your observation about the food on offer - I know the range is extensive and the quality excellent. If your wife would like to discuss food choices please, if she is able to do so, encourage her to speak to Emma. If she is not able then please could you discuss your concerns with Emma on your wife's behalf. I'm confident there will be a number of options that she will like. I'm concerned that there is a lot of waste - we will investigate this also. Nathan.
Without the wonderful care and support of all staff at the Lilac care home I could not have coped very well as my husband was really poorly. They were angels without wings not only did they look after my husband they made sure I was ok also I must say the food was excellent.
Without the wonderful care and support of all staff at the Lilac care home I could not have coped very well as my husband was really poorly. They were angels without wings not only did they look after my husband they made sure I was ok also I must say the food was excellent.
Good afternoon Teresa. Thank you so much for leaving this really personal and clearly heartfelt review of your experience with our Care Team at The Lilacs Residential Care Home in Exeter, Devon. It's lovely to read about how well our Care Team looked after you and your husband at such a difficult...
Good afternoon Teresa. Thank you so much for leaving this really personal and clearly heartfelt review of your experience with our Care Team at The Lilacs Residential Care Home in Exeter, Devon. It's lovely to read about how well our Care Team looked after you and your husband at such a difficult time. It's not often people are described as 'angels without wings' and I'm sure our care team members will be very deeply moved when they see that you have described them as such. And, thank you for the compliments about the food. Thank you again for your kind words. Nathan.
I only come in once or twice a week, but every time I come in she (my mum) is very well looked after. She seems really happy.
I only come in once or twice a week, but every time I come in she (my mum) is very well looked after. She seems really happy.
Good afternoon. Thank you for taking the time to leave this really positive feedback in relation to our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's lovely to read that every time you visit your mum is well looked after and seems really happy. Kindest regards, Nathan.
Very disappointed. My husband didn't like the hot food so only had a sandwich and yogurt twice a day plus some crisps and snacks. Consequently he has lost weight. The garden was lovely but what spoilt it were full ashtrays and flower pots full of cigarette buts. Some of the staff were helpful and...
Very disappointed. My husband didn't like the hot food so only had a sandwich and yogurt twice a day plus some crisps and snacks. Consequently he has lost weight. The garden was lovely but what spoilt it were full ashtrays and flower pots full of cigarette buts. Some of the staff were helpful and nice but when my daughter, son in law and grandchildren visited they immediately got scanned without any explanation. Obviously the children were confused at to what was happening. We thought this was very rude and unnecessary. I collected my husband the evening before I was due to as he had been very agitated and had been shouting, he felt like he was in a prison. When we left no one said goodbye and I felt we left under a cloud, quite uncomfortable. My husbands bedroom smelt of urine when we arrived and was worse on one of my visits. Overall very disappointed.
Good morning MB. It is, of course, very disappointing to receive anything other than a glowing review. We are very sorry that you have felt the need to write it. I have spoken to the Care Home Manager and reviewed records etc. Whilst I only have 1000 characters here and am conscious of the need for...
Good morning MB. It is, of course, very disappointing to receive anything other than a glowing review. We are very sorry that you have felt the need to write it. I have spoken to the Care Home Manager and reviewed records etc. Whilst I only have 1000 characters here and am conscious of the need for discretion and dignity - I am able to reply as follows. Your husband was very happy at The Lilacs until the day he left. He ate well and regularly enjoyed the excellent hot food that we provide. We check all visitors temperature upon arrival as a high temperature is a clear indicator of illness - the UK has had a quad-demic of respiratory illness this year. It's difficult to address the smell of urine other than to say that the room did not smell of urine - but there may be times when there was a smell of urine present - and these are dealt with quickly. Our care team spent much time helping your husband and caring for him. Your review is a very unfair reflection of their dedication.
Very happy with the care my auntie is receiving. She looks very well and obviously is eating well.
Very happy with the care my auntie is receiving. She looks very well and obviously is eating well.
Hello Gill K. Thank you for taking the time to publish this 5 / 5 Star review of your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's lovely to read that you are really happy with the care that your auntie is receiving and that she looks and is eating well. Kindest regards
I am very happy with the care that my aunt receives at the home. She is safe and is happy here.
I am very happy with the care that my aunt receives at the home. She is safe and is happy here.
Hello Andrew V. Thank you for taking the time to publish this 5 / 5 Star review of your experience with our Care Home and Care Team at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really lovely to read that you are very happy with the care that your aunt receives and that she is safe and happy there. Kindest regards
Lilacs Care Home is a lovely place, very welcoming, the carers are amazing. Wouldn't wish of any better place for my sister!
Lilacs Care Home is a lovely place, very welcoming, the carers are amazing. Wouldn't wish of any better place for my sister!
Hello Jackie O. Thank you for taking the time to publish this really lovely review of your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really lovely to read that you find that The Lilacs is a lovely place, very welcoming and with amazing carers and, most importantly,...
Hello Jackie O. Thank you for taking the time to publish this really lovely review of your experience with our Care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really lovely to read that you find that The Lilacs is a lovely place, very welcoming and with amazing carers and, most importantly, that you could not wish for a better place for your sister. Thank you again for this kind feedback, I know the team at The Lilacs will really appreciate it. Kindest regards
Over the last 18 months my mother has been very well looked after. I thank all the staff at The Lilacs (Exeter) for their dedication and support with the care they gave Mother in the last months of her life, and in particular the way they cared for her as the end was approaching. The Lilacs was...
Over the last 18 months my mother has been very well looked after. I thank all the staff at The Lilacs (Exeter) for their dedication and support with the care they gave Mother in the last months of her life, and in particular the way they cared for her as the end was approaching. The Lilacs was well run and it appeared that all the other clients were treated with care and respect.
Good afternoon CG. Thank you for taking the time to leave this really positive review of your experience with our care team and care home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really nice to read that your mum had been very well looked after and thank you for highlighting the dedication and support provided by our care team. We are, of course, all very sorry for your recent loss. Kindest regards
The staff at this home treat my mum with great patience and dignity and are very warm towards...
The staff at this home treat my mum with great patience and dignity and are very warm towards her. A great deal of effort is made with her likes and dislikes. The home is not luxurious but it is warm and homely and there always seems to be something organised for the residents.
Hello Barbara F. Thank you so much for taking the time to write and publish this really lovely review of your experience, and most importantly that of your mum, with our care team and care home at The Lilacs. It's lovely to read that your mum enjoyed her 100th Birthday and that the team were able...
Hello Barbara F. Thank you so much for taking the time to write and publish this really lovely review of your experience, and most importantly that of your mum, with our care team and care home at The Lilacs. It's lovely to read that your mum enjoyed her 100th Birthday and that the team were able to join in celebrating with her. I note what you say 'the home is not luxurious' and I agree - in all of our care homes we work really hard to ensure that we create a home-from-home feeling - we don't have a cinema room or sauna etc. at The Lilacs - but we don't (well, most of us) have those at home. We have lovely people with a cosy lounge (with a big TV) and a lovely bathroom. I have noted that you have only scored us 3 for cleanliness - we would certainly want a 5 for that! Please let the home manager know if you have any concerns about cleanliness. Thank you again for your kind feedback.
After living at The Lilacs for several years, as her Alzheimer's progressed, my mother died there on 8th February 2024. We were surrounded by care and compassion both during and after her final days. Nothing seemed to be too much trouble, and it was as though they were saying goodbye to one of...
After living at The Lilacs for several years, as her Alzheimer's progressed, my mother died there on 8th February 2024. We were surrounded by care and compassion both during and after her final days. Nothing seemed to be too much trouble, and it was as though they were saying goodbye to one of their friends. I have nothing but praise for all the staff who looked after my mother during her years of residence. They knew her moods, likes and dislikes, and acted accordingly with kindness and understanding. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the way you looked after her. I couldn't have asked for better.
Firstly, please allow me to pass on our condolences for the sad loss of your Mum. Secondly, thank you for taking the time to leave this really lovely review of our care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really lovely to read how our care team supported you, and your mum, during and...
Firstly, please allow me to pass on our condolences for the sad loss of your Mum. Secondly, thank you for taking the time to leave this really lovely review of our care Team and Care Home at The Lilacs in Exeter. It's really lovely to read how our care team supported you, and your mum, during and following her final days. We have a great team at The Lilacs, many of whom have been there a long time, all of whom will have gotten to know your mum well and will miss her. Thank you again for your kind words and may I offer our best wishes to you and your family. Kindest regards.
Regulatory Rating
Care Quality Commission (CQC) Rating
Date: 07 July 2026Good
- CaringGood
- EffectiveGood
- ResponsiveGood
- SafeGood
- Well-ledGood
Inspection ratings
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- Outstanding - The service is performing exceptionally well.
- Good - The service is performing well and meeting our expectations.
- Requires Improvement - The service isn't performing as well as it should and we have told the service how it must improve.
- Inadequate - The service is performing badly and we've taken action against the person or organisation that runs it.
- Not rated - we have not yet rated this area of the service, this is normally because the assessments we have carried out have been focused on other key questions.
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Awards / Recognitions (3)
- 28 Feb 2023Recipient: Stonehaven Care Group
- 30 Jun 2021Recipient: Stonehaven Care Group
- 01 Feb 2018Recipient: Stonehaven Care Group
Accreditations
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Registered Manager of The Lilacs in Exeter.
Frequently Asked Questions about The Lilacs Residential Home
What types of Care is The Lilacs Residential Home registered for?
Older Person Care, Dementia, Mental Health Condition, Physical Disability, Visual / Hearing Impairment are the registered (by the Care Quality Commission) categories of Care.
How many Rooms does The Lilacs Residential Home have?
There are 29 Single Rooms.
What are the Facilities & Services at The Lilacs Residential Home?
Own Furniture if required, Pet Friendly (or by arrangement), Smoking not permitted, Close to Local shops, Near Public Transport, Minibus or other transport, Lift, Wheelchair Access, Gardens, Television point in own room, Residents Internet Access are some of the Facilities & Services.
How far is The Lilacs Residential Home to the centre of Exeter?
1.0 mile(s) as the crow flies, distance by road may be significantly further.
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