
The care she had was brilliant, with many activities to keep her entertainedJessica H(Granddaughter of Resident/Service User)

Every member of staff, whatever their role, gave their absolute all every single dayMarielle S(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

Thank you to all staff and management for Mum's continuing care.Margaret T(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

The care she had was brilliant, with many activities to keep her entertainedJessica H(Granddaughter of Resident/Service User)

Every member of staff, whatever their role, gave their absolute all every single dayMarielle S(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

Thank you to all staff and management for Mum's continuing care.Margaret T(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

Situated in the heart of Kent, Abbotsleigh Care Centre provides older people with tailored residential, nursing and dementia care with compassion, dignity and respect. Residents and their families feel supported by the Home's expert care teams. With a physiotherapist to support residents with rehabilitation, enabling day or short-term placements, physiotherapy services also help with improving residents’ strength, reducing falls and improving overall well-being.
The Home offers single room accommodation, most...
Care Provided by Abbotsleigh Care Centre
Primary Care Categories
- Older Person Care
- Dementia
- Physical Disability
- Visual / Hearing Impairment
Length of Stay
- Permanent Care
- Respite Care
Care Types Provided
- Residential Care
- Nursing Care
- Dementia Residential Care
- Dementia Nursing Care
- For a maximum of 61 Service Users
Dementia Care TypesMild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
Mild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
- Mild Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
- Advanced/Complex Dementia
Other Care Provided
- Parkinson's Disease
- Stroke
- Palliative / End of Life Care
- COPD/Pulmonary Disease
- Convalescent Care
- Day Care
Facilities
- Own Furniture if required
- Pet Friendly (or by arrangement)
- Smoking not permitted
- Close to Local shops
- Near Public Transport
- Minibus or other transport
- Lift
- Stairlift
- Wheelchair Access
- Gardens
- Bar/Café
- Television point in own room
- Residents Internet Access
Funding & Fees
Weekly Charges per Person
The Self-Funded Nursing Care weekly fee does not include the NHS-Funded Nursing Care (FNC) fee. The weekly fees do not include personal expenditures such as hairdressing, chiropody, physiotherapy, opticians, dentist, transportation, cost of outings, newspapers subscription, escort fees etc.
The price(s) shown are provided by the care home. Contact Abbotsleigh Care Centre for full pricing details and T&Cs.
Contact Abbotsleigh Care Centre to confirm what's included and get a personalised quote:
Funding Types Accepted
- Self-Funding (Private)
- Local Authority with Top-up
- Local Authority
- NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)
Support you may be entitled to
- If you chose a care home based in England, you may be eligible for NHS Funded Nursing Care (FNC), which helps cover the cost of nursing. This is worth £267.68 per week and is usually paid directly to the care home.
Good to Know
Group / Owner
- Nellsar Care Homes
- Private Owned
Person in charge
- Joy Cagande (Home Manager)
Local Authority / Social Services
Admission Information
- Mixed (no single-gender units)
- Ages 55+
Care Home Design/Build
- Purpose Built: Yes
- Year Purpose Built: -1
- Last Refurbishment: 2025
- Number of floors: 2
Room Information
- Single Rooms (58)
- Single Rooms with ensuite Wet Room (3)
Visiting
- The home operate an open-hours visiting policy, which means relatives and friends are welcome to drop by and see their loved ones at any time. Families are always welcome to join their relatives for afternoon tea or lunch if booked in advance.
Parking
- The home has a large car park to the front of the property.
Abbotsleigh Care Centre Reviews (120)
Abbotsleigh Care Centre has a Review Score of 9.9 (9.854) out of 10, based on 18 reviews in the last 2 years.
Over all time Abbotsleigh Care Centre has 120 reviews.
I regularly visit Abbotsleigh and have been so impressed, particularly with the kindness and friendliness of the staff. Each one smiles and says 'hello' on passing - I would recommend anyone who needs this type of care to this home.
Everyone is so friendly and helpful and genuinely care about looking after mum. The management and nurses are always available and happy to help with any queries. I would have no hesitation in recommending the care at Abbotsleigh.
The staff are all welcoming, polite and organised by senior management staff. Requests are always addressed and prompt action taken when possible.
Menus are adapted to resident's needs, medication and medical problems are promptly attended.
Many heartfelt thanks for the excellent care given to my husband, who had complex health problems and dementia. All the staff from managers, nurses, carers and activity coordinators to reception, and domestic staff were excellent and cared for my husband in such a professional and kind manner. We were supported at all times through distressing moments and shown such compassion. Any changes in my husbands condition were addressed and his needs met. Sadly he passed away after four months at Abbotsleigh but it came to feel like home there, and much respect was shown at the time of his death. We would highly recommend Abbotsleigh as a wonderful care home.
Excellent friendly staff and happy environment throughout.
I cannot extend a big enough thank you to Abbottsleigh Care Centre for all the work they put in for Christmas Day yesterday for us families. The staff there are second to none; kind, caring, giving up their Christmas days to selflessly ensure we had enough drinks and food and that the residents had companionship and were comfortable. Dad, bless him, could not eat any of the food but he had a liquified version which he had a little of. The staff even did individual present bags and a Christmas card for each resident. We are very fortunate that Dad is there and they help make things easier. Thank you so much Abbottsleigh.
Due to the overall management and care - both my parents are relative newcomers to Abbotsleigh Care Centre but both have settled in very well thanks to all the staff's kindness. On their 61st wedding anniversary, a lovely party was arranged and we all had a very pleasant tea party. So much thought had gone into it, it was fabulous! Both my parents really enjoyed it hugely.
Just wanted to say a big thank you to all the team, for the fantastic firework evening. All the residents were included, given hotdogs etc. There was a lovely bonfire and the chance to have sparklers and toasted marshmallows. My mum, sister and daughter were welcomed and we all joined dad. He enjoyed it, became a bit tired but that's just him. It was lovely to be part of such a fun night. Well done!
The rural location means easy access for visitors.
The manager is keen to listen and take action to improve the environment and wellbeing of residents.
Staff are polite, helpful and courteous, smart and efficient. Activities are organised for residents on a daily basis.
We feel mum is being cared for at Abbotsleigh.
With regards to some of your ratings:
Activities: During the last year the Activities team has increased to support us offering a 7 days a week service and 2 staff on duty each day. The team is made up of 3 full-time...
Since my mum was admitted to Abbotsleigh in September on a pathway initially, we have been so impressed with the communication, care and consideration with mums care. The people we have had contact with across the whole team has been great and they demonstrate such care and compassion that we did not hesitate to choose Abbotsleigh as a preferred residence for mum. The home manager and her deputy are simply wonderful.
My father-in-law has been in this care home for the last 2 years. In the last year, the management has changed and so has the home. It has become a much happier place. There is consistency with the staff as before the change I was always seeing new faces as there was an awful lot of agency staff used but now no agency staff. This is far better as the staff have got to know my father in law well and what his needs are, which is far better for him. The home has taken on a more homely appearance as it has been updated. I have found all the staff including the management team very approachable and always treat my father with respect and kindness. If you are looking for a care home for a loved one then I don't think you could find one better than this one.
I am really happy with the care my Grandad receives. The staff are phenomenal and always check on my Grandad as he is now bed bound. My grandad doesn't talk to anyone and Abbotsleigh Care Centre think of ways to interact with him in hope to try to get him talking and remembering his family and friends. Whenever I go to visit my Grandad, the staff are very welcoming and always have a smile on their face. It makes me happy to know that my Grandad is being looked after properly. I really cannot fault the care they give him and would highly recommend this care home!
The staff and management are very kind and considerate and they are providing the very best care for my Mother in Law.
That home was not very good so I can compare one home against another. Abbotsleigh is a very good place for my mother to be.
Kindness, care and consideration given to both residents and relatives. The units are clean and the food is excellent.
The Manager and the team are very attentive to residents, kind, smiling faces that greet you. The home is very clean and inviting. Whilst visiting my mother at dinner time I was asked if I would like to eat with my mother. 10/10 in all areas.
I found Abbotsleigh to have a warm and inviting feel from the minute you enter the building, staff are kind, caring and friendly always greeting visitors with a friendly smile and acknowledgement. My mother was transferred from hospital in February, but was only at Abbotsleigh for a short time as she was on the End of Life path, so for me one of the most important things was the cosy ‘home from home’ feel of the bedrooms (not hospitalised or clinical) as all.
I cannot speak highly enough about the professionalism of the manager and her team, I felt confident my mother was comfortable and receiving the best care in the best possible place.
The manager came across as being extremely sensitive, taking time to explain to me step by step what would happen in Mum's final days and when I wasn’t at the home with Mum, I got regular phone calls throughout both day and night as to her condition and what stage she was at (which was a massive help).
Thank you.
I wrote a review recently in February following Abbotsleigh hosting a 100th Birthday party for my mother. Sadly she passed a couple of weeks later. I want to write to let everyone know that the care and attention given at Abbotsleigh didn’t stop when my mother died. The staff there showed such compassion and thoughtfulness to our family. Mum had someone stay with her at the end. I received a beautiful bouquet of flowers. A member of staff attended the funeral and Nellsar Head Office even issued a refund of fees without being asked. The management and staff are all so caring and I couldn’t be more enthusiastic about recommending this care home.
Dad can be difficult at times due to his advanced dementia and the manager has stayed in touch with dad's previous Care home manager, taking on board and implementing suggested ways to assist him to avoid frustration and conflict. I find this a positive and encouraging approach.
Overall I am confident of dad's safety and well-being in his new home.
My mother entered Abbotsleigh for Nursing Care following two strokes. She was resident for just under three years and during this time was always clean and well looked after. The staff were always polite and the food was excellent. Her room (10) was kept in an immaculate condition and her bedding changed as and when required. The home provided various activities and a coordinator to stimulate the residents. As my mother was seat bound she developed various sores which at times required Doctor and Nurse treatment, this was laid on by the home without fail, and I am grateful this occurred. Occasionally my mother had an infection that required Doctor attendance and this also occurred without fail, and there is a good local Doctor in Staplehurst nearby. My mother received end of life care at the home and this was conducted with dignity and they helped me when I visited in the days leading to the end.
I am grateful to all the staff and Managers of Abbotsleigh for their tremendous help.
Regulatory Rating
Care Quality Commission (CQC) Rating
Date: 14 December 2018Good
- CaringGood
- EffectiveGood
- ResponsiveGood
- SafeGood
- Well-ledGood
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- Outstanding - The service is performing exceptionally well.
- Good - The service is performing well and meeting our expectations.
- Requires Improvement - The service isn't performing as well as it should and we have told the service how it must improve.
- Inadequate - The service is performing badly and we've taken action against the person or organisation that runs it.
- Not rated - we have not yet rated this area of the service, this is normally because the assessments we have carried out have been focused on other key questions.
Bed Vacancies
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News (29) & Events (0)
- 30 Jul 2026
Our residents were treated to a fantastic afternoon of live entertainment when Caz and Ellie arrived in full ABBA costume, ready to perform some of the band's greatest hits at...
- 16 Jul 2026
Our annual Wimbledon-themed party returned to our Care Home in Staplehurst on Friday 3 July, bringing together our residents, families, colleagues, volunteers, and guests from some of our sister Homes,...
- 25 Jun 2026
We were delighted to welcome singer Michael, a new performer to our Care Home in Staplehurst, for a wonderful afternoon of live entertainment recently. Michael treated our residents to a...
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Awards / Recognitions (7)
- 30 Jan 2026Recipient: Nellsar Care Homes
- 30 Jun 2021Recipient: Nellsar Care Homes
- 28 Feb 2020Recipient: Nellsar Care Homes
Accreditations
There are no accreditations posted yet for Abbotsleigh Care Centre.
Meet the Team (13)

Joy joined Abbotsleigh Care Centre in November 2015 as a Registered Nurse and has grown with the home over the years, progressing through leadership roles before becoming Home Manager in April 2026.
Passionate about creating a true sense of home, Joy leads with warmth, compassion, and a strong commitment to person-centred care. She strives to ensure that every resident feels valued, respected, and supported to live as independently and comfortably as possible, with care tailored to their individual needs and preferences.
Abbotsleigh Care Centre is a welcoming Dementia and Nursing Care Home in the heart of Staplehurst, Kent. Set within a charming building that combines traditional character with beautifully refurbished, modern facilities, the home offers a peaceful and tranquil environment surrounded by landscaped gardens.
With 58 bright and comfortable bedrooms - most with en-suite facilities - Abbotsleigh provides a safe and homely setting.
The home features two dedicated units, Red Admiral and Holly Blue, alongside inviting communal spaces, including spacious lounges, dining areas, and a private atrium for meaningful time with loved ones. Residents also benefit from a dedicated Sensory and Stimulation Room, supporting wellbeing and enriching daily life through engaging activities.
Under Joy’s leadership, the focus is on delivering high-quality, compassionate care while fostering a positive and inclusive community for residents, families, and staff. Families are encouraged to be part of their loved one’s journey, with open communication and personalised care plans ensuring that every individual receives the very best support.

Alexandra has been part of the team at Abbotsleigh Care Centre since 2016, when she initially started as a Registered Nurse.
She then progressed to Unit Manager, followed by Head of Care, before taking on the role of Deputy Manager in April 2026.
Alexandra takes great pride in being part of the home and feels a strong sense of belonging within the team.
She is passionate about supporting our residents, their families, and our staff, and believes that kindness, trust, and teamwork are at the heart of excellent care. In her role as Deputy Manager, she is committed to creating a positive and supportive environment where residents feel safe, valued, and truly at home, and where staff feel encouraged and respected.

Andrea joined the Abbotsleigh team in August 2024, bringing experience from both graphic design and healthcare environments. She initially joined as part of the Activities team before transitioning into her current role in 2025. Andrea is a strong communicator who is passionate about strengthening connections with residents’ families and friends, ensuring they feel welcomed, informed, and valued as part of the Abbotsleigh community.

Jacqui joined Abbotsleigh in July 2021 and takes pride in ensuring her responsibilities are completed efficiently, accurately, and to a high standard. She manages staff administration with care and attention to detail, overseeing recruitment, onboarding, and ongoing staff support throughout their time at Abbotsleigh. Jacqui is also committed to maintaining accurate resident administration and works closely with Head Office to ensure smooth and consistent processes.

Chris joined the team in May 2020 and is responsible for maintaining the warm and welcoming environment at Abbotsleigh. A qualified plasterer by trade, Chris brings a broad range of maintenance skills to the role and is always willing to assist wherever needed. He communicates well with the management team, staff and residents alike and takes great pride in both his workmanship and his ability to provide practical solutions whenever he can.

Jeetu joined Abbotsleigh in January 2021 as a Registered Nurse and was promoted to Unit Manager of Red Admiral in 2022. She is a passionate Infection Prevention and Control Champion, committed to maintaining a clean, warm and welcoming environment that supports the health and well-being of residents. Alongside her nursing responsibilities, Jeetu supports the team through an open-door approach and works closely with the management team.

Sreeja joined Abbotsleigh as a Registered Nurse in December 2020 and has since progressed to Unit Manager for Holly Blue. She takes great pride in her nursing role and in building strong relationships with residents and their families, ensuring the delivery of high-quality, person-centred care. As Skin Care Champion, Sreeja is committed to developing and applying her expertise in this area. She enjoys leading her team of care and domestic assistants and works closely with the management team to create a positive, supportive environment for residents and their families.

Drawing on her experience in resident liaison and wellbeing activities, Kirsty also continues to provide valuable support across the home to residents, colleagues and the management team.

Alex joined Abbotsleigh in 2016 as a Healthcare and Kitchen Assistant, progressing to Chef after one year and becoming Head Chef in 2019. He is passionate about providing residents with nutritious, enjoyable meals that support their health and wellbeing, and values engaging with residents to gather their feedback. Alex also enjoys working closely with the Activities team during events, preparing barbecues and creating themed menus inspired by destinations visited by relatives on virtual cruises.

Esme plans and oversees a wide range of activities and events, encouraging residents to take part in meaningful, person-centred experiences that help them maintain existing skills, develop new ones, and promote independence, while always respecting personal choice.

Leigh is one of the original members of the team and worked at the home as a Carer prior to Nellsar taking over Abbotsleigh. She is a highly respected and valued team member with a wealth of experience and knowledge. Over the years, Leigh’s role has evolved significantly, and she now draws on her diverse skills as a Senior Carer, Continence Assessor, Moving and Handling Champion and Minibus Driver. She also supports the Activities team and assists the nursing team on both the Red Admiral and Holly Blue units with medication rounds and care documentation.

George joined Abbotsleigh in June 2019 as a Senior Nurse. He plays a key role in ensuring the smooth and effective running of the home during the night, overseeing both the care and nursing teams. George is committed to maintaining high standards of care and ensuring residents feel safe, comfortable and well-supported at all times. He works closely with colleagues to provide responsive, person-centred care and offers guidance and leadership to the team throughout the night.

Known for her friendly chats with residents during her rounds, Staffy takes great pride in her work and in making sure everything that comes through the laundry is returned in pristine condition.
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