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Oakdale Care Home

123 Kiln Road, Benfleet, Essex SS7 1TG
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Oakdale Care Home, Benfleet
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Oakdale Care Home, Benfleet

Oakdale is a delightful home in Benfleet, Essex providing care and support for up to 27 older people with or without dementia.

The home is conveniently located close to the local town with good public transport links.

The house is continuously refurbished to provide a friendly, warm and homely environment.

There are 2 spacious lounges (including a Bar) and a dining area for residents and their families to enjoy and a...  

Care Provided by Oakdale Care Home

Primary Care Categories

  • Older Person Care
  • Dementia
  • Physical Disability
  • Visual / Hearing Impairment

Length of Stay

  • Permanent Care
  • Respite Care

Care Types Provided

  • Residential Care
  • Dementia Residential Care
  • For a maximum of 27 Service Users

Dementia Care Types

  • Mild Dementia
  • Moderate Dementia
  • Advanced/Complex Dementia

Other Care Provided

  • Parkinson's Disease
  • Stroke
  • Palliative / End of Life Care
  • COPD/Pulmonary Disease
  • Convalescent Care
  • Day Care

Facilities

  • Own Furniture if required
  • Pet Friendly (or by arrangement)
  • Smoking not permitted
  • Close to Local shops
  • Near Public Transport
  • Lift
  • Wheelchair Access
  • Gardens
  • Bar/Café
  • Phone Point in own room
  • Television point in own room
  • Residents Internet Access

Funding & Fees

Weekly Charges per Person

  • Self-Funded Residential Care: £1,200 - £1,500
  • Self-Funded Residential Dementia Care: £1,200 - £1,500
  • RESPITE Self-Funded Residential Care: £1,200 - £1,500
  • RESPITE Self-Funded Residential Dementia Care: £1,200 - £1,500

Fees are determined on an assessment of individual level of need and the room available/required.

The price(s) shown are provided by the care home. Contact Oakdale Care Home for full pricing details and T&Cs.

Contact Oakdale Care Home to confirm what's included and get a personalised quote:

Funding Types Accepted

  • Self-Funding (Private)
  • Local Authority with Top-up
  • Local Authority
  • NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)

Good to Know

Group/Owner

Person in charge

  • Melanie Tucknott (Home Manager)

Local Authority / Social Services

Admission Information

  • Mixed (no single-gender units)
  • Ages 65+

Care Home Design/Build

  • Purpose Built: No
  • Last Refurbishment: 2026
  • Number of floors: 2

Room Information

  • Single Rooms (23)
  • Couples/Companion Rooms (2)
  • Single Rooms with ensuite Wet Room (10)

Visiting

  • Visitors are always welcome at Oakdale. Due to protective mealtimes all the team ask is that you avoid visiting between 12pm to 1:30pm and 5pm to 6pm. You are always welcome to join your loved ones for a meal.

Parking

  • Oakdale have 2 parking spaces to the front of the building and a small car park for 3 cars at the rear of the building. Alternatively there are no restrictions on the main road outside the home or on the road to the side. There is a car park at the council offices a few minutes walk away.

Oakdale Care Home Reviews (110)

9.9

Oakdale Care Home has a Review Score of 9.9 (9.856) out of 10, based on 39 reviews in the last 2 years. Over all time Oakdale Care Home has 110 reviews.

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Review from Mark B (Son of Resident) published on 10 August 2021 Submitted via Website
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My father is in this home. Couldn’t have picked a better place for him. The staff are very friendly and caring. My father is very happy where he is. Very clean, and a wonderful, homely feel when you enter the home. Would highly recommend this home if you want your family member cared for the way they all do in this home. Gives the family peace of mind that they are safe and well looked after. Thank you to the manager and all the staff for your lovely care; you are all amazing.

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Review from David M (Son of Resident) published on 3 June 2021 Submitted via Website
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I am writing this review a month after the sad death of my mother, age 94, who had been a resident and member of the Oakdale family for three and a half years. Despite suffering from advanced vascular dementia, the staff at Oakdale were wonderful in the care and attention they gave to Mum’s personal needs and comfort. A special thank you to the manager and her team for ensuring high quality for Mum’s life in the last few years and creating an atmosphere at the home, that all the staff can sign up to. It really is one big happy family with a level of care of the highest standard. This is how a care home should be run, and I will retain a fondness for the management and staff working there forever. Thank you for everything and for always going that extra mile.

Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care Home

Dear David, thank you so much for your kind words; they are so appreciated by us all. You were also a wonderful and great support to our family here at Oakdale. We wish you peace and happiness, and there is always tea and cake here for you.

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Review from Janice M (Resident / Service User) published on 13 May 2021 Submitted via Website
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My mum arrived at Oakdale in October 2021 very frail and sad looking however we could not believe the difference, within 24 to 48 hours they had washed mum had a hairdresser do her hair and took a picture for the family, mum was smiling at the camera and looked more like the mum we knew, she looked happy. Mum suffered from Lewy Body Dementia so every day could be a challenge for her and her carers. All the staff treated mum with respect and dignity which the family will always be grateful for, mum enjoyed the home-cooked food and her chats with the staff - sadly due to COVID-19 and lockdowns we were unable to visit as we would but we knew mum was cared for and looked after. When mum sadly passed away, it was very quick and not expected, the family was unable to get there in time but the managers sat with mum and stroked her hand as she went which was such a comfort to the family. I cannot recommend this care home enough, it was spotlessly clean and the food smelled delicious.

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Review from Carol G (Sister of Resident) published on 19 August 2020 Submitted via Website
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I’ve been in a few care homes and I cannot praise the staff and management enough. I have always found them to be caring, gentle, compassionate, polite and above all else loving. Nothing is ever too much for them, they are always smiling, happy and fun, and you can see by the resident's faces that they are extremely happy and contented. I have never heard a raised voice from any member of staff. What also impresses me is the cleanliness and no unpleasant smells. We missed their summer fun/bbq day because of COVID, but I look forward to the next one. I’m always greeted with a smile and a cup of tea.

I am so pleased and happy in myself to know that my sister is well cared for and loved by all members of staff. My brother-in-law chose the best and I thank him from the bottom of my heart.

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Review from Keith H (Brother of Resident) published on 18 August 2020 Submitted via Website
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My sister has been in care with the staff of the Oakdale for a number of years and has been lovingly cared for by everyone there. During the COVID 19 pandemic not only have the staff had to cope with everyday care of their guests but the isolation and safeguards required for defense against the disease. As a way of keeping the residents and family and friends in touch during the epidemic, the manager and her staff have set up video links by Zoom, enabling both guests and family to stay in touch in such stressful times, even though it takes up more time for the staff in an already busy day. I can only thank the manager and her staff on behalf of our family for the care and devoted attention they have shown to my sister. Thank you so much.

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Review from Lynn F (Daughter of Resident) published on 11 May 2020 Submitted via Website
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My mum has dementia and has been a resident at Oakdale since December 2017. She is extremely well looked after with care and compassion at all times by the lovely staff. Oakdale had the foresight to close their doors to visitors prior to the lockdown and, due to this and the processes they have put in place, no member of staff or resident has caught the Coronavirus, which is such a relief. As we are unable to visit at the moment, we receive a weekly newsletter and there are always lots of lovely photos posted on social media for us to keep up to date with what all the staff are doing to keep the residents entertained.

Thank you Oakdale for keeping everyone safe and sound during this difficult time and we look forward to being able to visit soon.

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Review from D D (Daughter of Resident) published on 25 October 2019 Submitted via Postal Card
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In July, my mother needed to be moved into a care home. This was such a difficult decision for us to make. We viewed all local care homes and Oakdale was far superior to any others. The staff are so amazingly caring, nothing is too much trouble and there is a genuine warmth in the home. They have made this so easy and comfortable for you and our mother.

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Review from Janet A (Daughter of Resident) published on 19 June 2019 Submitted via Website
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My father has Vascular Dementia and began wandering at night, leaving the door to his sheltered accommodation open and himself and other residents at risk. My sister and I asked sought advice and researched suitable care homes in Benfleet where Dad had lived for many years and the Oakdale Care Home was recommended many times. Unfortunately, there were no available rooms but we arranged for Dad to go there for Daycare one day per week initially to see how he settled. He loved the attention from the staff and the fact that other residents spoke to him and he was invited to join in activities. He spoke highly of the food too.

The manager and staff that I have got to know whilst Dad has been there have been very helpful, kind and understanding. Nothing has been too much trouble. The care taken to arrange activities to interest residents is outstanding and the understanding of their needs and willingness to respond in a constructive way really comes across. Thank you for your advice and support.

Reply from Melanie Tucknott, Registered Manager at Oakdale Care Home

Thank you so very much for the wonderful things you have said about our family here at Oakdale, it has been a pleasure to get to know you and your Dad, Mel.

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Review from J L (Son of Resident) published on 10 May 2019 Submitted via Postal Card
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The staff and management are very attentive to the residents. They also have a doctor attending weekly to review medical needs and have taken my mother to hospital appointments several times.

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Review from Margaret (Daughter of Resident) published on 18 April 2019 Submitted via Website
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My mother has been a resident in Oakdale Care Home, Benfleet, Essex, for 5 months. She is 99 and has settled in extremely well. She needs company and feels happy and safe, and enjoys the family atmosphere in there. My mother joins in with activities and responds well to the staff who she describes as very kind and caring. The family has appreciated the professionalism of the staff in their approach to my mother's medical, emotional and physical needs, and their gentleness and sensitivity to her, both during the day and during the night. The staff work closely with the family and are always welcoming and supportive, and we feel confident that my mother is receiving the very best care that we could hope for, and that all her needs at this stage in her life are being met.

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Review from Matthew P (Grandson of Resident) published on 5 April 2019 Submitted via Website
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My Grandmother is here and I can honestly say she has never been so well looked after. Her health has improved (as well as can be due to dementia). The care home staff are amazing and my Nan is clearly looked after well. I truly cannot express how happy we are as a family having her stay here. They truly have our trust.

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Review from Patricia S (Daughter of Resident) published on 30 January 2019 Submitted via Website
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Oakdale is a place of exceptional care and kindness. My Mother has been a resident for a couple of months and the Carers treat her with gentleness and respect. Because of her dementia, she is not always easy to care for but throughout her care there, I have never seen anything less than the best of concern and actions taken to keep her as well as possible and happy. I count ourselves very fortunate to have been able to have Mum cared for there.

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Review from Cheryl (Daughter of Resident) published on 30 January 2019 Submitted via Website
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My mother has been at Oakdale Care Home now for some time (since May 2017), but I wanted to submit an up-to-date review as there may be someone out there looking for residential care for their loved one and are unsure what to look for in a care home. Oakdale is so much more than a care home, it's my Mum's home now and the Oakdale staff are her second family. Aside from the excellent meals provided, the high quality of cleanliness throughout the home, I cannot emphasise enough about the constant level of care, attention and genuine affection my Mum receives, it truly is second to none. I love going in to visit Mum, from her having her hair and nails pampered, to enjoying a good old fashioned sing song - there's a lot to keep her stimulated. I know what a difficult decision it can be to consider residential care, and I feel like we struck gold when Mum moved into Oakdale. It truly is home from home and I cannot thank them enough for making this a heartwarming experience for us all.

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Review from Lynn C (Daughter of Resident) published on 23 January 2019 Submitted via Website
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We first went to Oakdale when we needed day respite for Mum. Finding Oakdale was the best thing we could do for Mum. She has been resident for nearly 18 months. It is a lovely home from home with wonderful staff. The carers are very reassuring with the residents, always rubbing an arm, giving cuddles, holding a hand. The atmosphere is calm. The drinks trolley is always on the go. There is never any issue if we pop in to see Mum, indeed we are encouraged to visit and join in with events at the home. In the absence of being able to keep Mum in her own home, this is the best home.

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Review from Jane L (Daughter of Resident) published on 18 December 2018 Submitted via Website
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I am very happy that my Father was able to go into Oakdale, he has settled in very well and initially went in for two weeks respite this has been extended to six weeks.
The manager has been so supportive to my mum, sister and I, during the time that dad went into Oakdale and she continues to be very caring and supportive.
The manager and her staff at Oakdale have been brilliant, dad didn’t settle at first but with all the care and hard work, everybody contributed dad is now very settled and happy. The team have been so good, patient and understanding and we cannot thank them all enough.

The staff at Oakdale go over and above to make the residents happy.

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Review from Susan C (Daughter of Resident) published on 6 December 2018 Submitted via Website
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My mother came to Oakdale on discharge from hospital and the staff were very welcoming and kind. Since being there, all her needs have been met with genuine care and concern. The staff go out of their way to engage with the residents and talk to them. My sisters and I have been listened to and advised on lots of things of which we were unsure. The senior staff work in the lounge on laptops, to ensure they are part of the community. We are always welcomed when we come to visit, offered a cup of tea and made to feel welcome.

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Review from Raymond B (Husband of Resident) published on 4 October 2018 Submitted via Postal Card
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Wife was admitted into Oakdale Care Home almost five years ago from the first day until now she has been looked after with care, dignity and respect by all staff and visitors. Despite her problems, she is very happy. She says they are my friends. My family and I are more than happy with this home.

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Review from Sue (Daughter of Resident) published on 28 August 2018 Submitted via Website
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We looked at numerous care homes before choosing, but Oakdale was the first and we knew instantly that Oakdale would be ideal for mum. It's very much home from home and one big family. The staff are amazing and truly caring. Nothing is too much trouble. They spend time with everyone, even if it's a little squeeze of a hand as they pass through. They make everyone feel special. They always make me and my family so welcome, including the dog, as the residents love him. The food looks lovely - I've even been invited to lunch. A varied programme of daily activities and groups coming in. Mum especially enjoyed the nursery children visits. It's lovely to see the oldies have a little sing-song and for families to be able to join in the special events. We know mum is truly cared for and in safe hands.

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Review from Deborah M (Friend of Resident) published on 23 August 2018 Submitted via Postal Card
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I was recommended Oakdale Care Home by a social worker. I have been pleased to find that the staff go the extra mile in the care of the residents and they have exceptionally looked after. I am really happy with all aspects of the home. We are private funding friends of our resident.

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Review from Vicky (Niece of Resident) published on 25 July 2018 Submitted via Website
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My Mum lived at Oakdale and was joined by her sister later on. My Mum died last year and my aunt died this month. In the time they were there they were cared for so well. They were both very happy living at Oakdale, they both loved all the staff and I truly believe the staff loved them back! I couldn't have asked for a better Care Home. We were so lucky that they ended their days there. It didn't stop there either, all visitors were made to feel so welcome. We all felt part of the family.

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Regulatory Rating

Care Quality Commission (CQC) Rating

Date: 11 March 2020
Overall Good
  • Caring Good
  • Effective Good
  • Responsive Outstanding
  • Safe Good
  • Well-led Good
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Meet the Team (3)

Melanie Tucknott Job Title: Registered Home Manager Joined: 2007
Melanie Tucknott

Melanie has been the Registered Home manager at Oakdale since 2007 and has worked in Social care since she was 16 years old. She is very passionate about Dementia and End of Life care. Melanie completed a Diploma in Dementia Care and is proud to say that she was part of the first-ever group called Cohort 1 in the movement of 'My Home Life' in which she participated for over 3 years, this is now countrywide.

Silvia Gurgu Job Title: Registered Home Manager Joined: 2005
Silvia Gurgu

Silvia started at Oakdale in 2005 as a Senior Carer, in 2009 she became Deputy Manager and then in 2021 advanced to Registered Home Manager along with Melanie. Silvia's passion for Care and those she cares for is second to none, and you will always find her supporting on the floor, alongside the carers, instead of the office, as this is where she prefers to be.

Tracy Sycamore Job Title: Senior Care Homes Administrator Joined: 2016
Tracy Sycamore

Tracy started as part time in the newly formed home administrator role at Oakdale in 2016, progressing to full time and then to a Senior position in 2022 where she also supports the Other Admins and our Head Office in the Abode care Homes group. Tracy won Support Person of the Year at the Annual awards ceremony in 2019.

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