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so refreshing to see how dedicated the staff are, they always seem to go over and aboveJoanne M(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

The staff have been fantastic, they are all so caring and are looking after my mum incredibly wellKathy I(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

all of the staff are kind, thoughtful, caring, and very helpful.V C(Cousin of Resident/Service User)

so refreshing to see how dedicated the staff are, they always seem to go over and aboveJoanne M(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

The staff have been fantastic, they are all so caring and are looking after my mum incredibly wellKathy I(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

all of the staff are kind, thoughtful, caring, and very helpful.V C(Cousin of Resident/Service User)

Abbotsleigh Mews is a purpose-built care home, welcoming those in need of nursing, residential and dementia care.
Short stay, convalescence and palliative care also available.
The home is arranged into different houses for different types of care and is surrounded by beautiful landscaped grounds. Residents also have a choice of lounge and dining areas, a sensory room and activities rooms.
Registered nurses and well-trained care assistants know that it's important to...
Care Provided by Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home
Primary Care Categories
- Older Person Care
- Dementia
Length of Stay
- Permanent Care
- Respite Care
Care Types Provided
- Residential Care
- Nursing Care
- Dementia Residential Care
- Dementia Nursing Care
- For a maximum of 120 Service Users
Dementia Care TypesMild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
Mild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
- Mild Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
- Advanced/Complex Dementia
Other Care Provided
- Parkinson's Disease
- Palliative / End of Life Care
- Convalescent Care
Facilities
- Own Furniture if required
- Close to Local shops
- Near Public Transport
- Lift
- Wheelchair Access
- Gardens
- Residents Kitchenette
- Phone Point in own room
- Television point in own room
Funding & Fees
Weekly Charges per Person
Pricing is subject to an assessment of care needs and the room chosen. There’s no need for your loved one to have Bupa health insurance, our Care Home is open to everyone. Please contact us for more information.
The price(s) shown are provided by the care home. Contact Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home for full pricing details and T&Cs.
Contact Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home to confirm what's included and get a personalised quote:
Funding Types Accepted
- Self-Funding (Private)
- Local Authority with Top-up
- Local Authority
- NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)
Support you may be entitled to
- If you chose a care home based in England, you may be eligible for NHS Funded Nursing Care (FNC), which helps cover the cost of nursing. This is worth £267.68 per week and is usually paid directly to the care home.
Good to Know
Group / Owner
- Bupa Care Homes
- Private Owned
Person in charge
- Christen San Pedro (Home Manager)
Local Authority / Social Services
Admission Information
- Ages 65+
Care Home Design/Build
- Purpose Built: Yes
Room Information
- Single Rooms (120)
Visiting
- The bus stop outside will soon take you into Sidcup, just a mile away. Within easy reach are Chislehurst Caves and lovely walks at Scadbury and Danson parks. The Royal Observatory Greenwich, Canary Wharf and the O2 are also less than ten miles away.
Parking
- Lots of on-site parking available.
Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home Reviews (124)
Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home has a Review Score of 9.6 (9.631) out of 10, based on 35 reviews in the last 2 years.
Over all time Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home has 124 reviews.
My mum and I went to view last weekend and one member of staff was really helpful and informative. It was the first time we visited and she put us at ease, and answered all our questions. The home was clean and all residents seemed happy, clean and well looked after. We were happy with the safety measures that have also been put in place.
We appreciate you taking the time to leave us your comments. It is always nice to hear from family members feeling like their loved one is cared for and looked after. It is always nice to hear words like "Helpful" and "Informative" being used to describe our care. We hope to continue providing your loved one with the best possible care.
Mum has been in Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home for 2 1/2 years. I have been more than happy with her care. She always says "I am so well looked after here and the food is so good too". What else can you ask for. Well done Abbotsleigh.
Thank you for your kind words. We hope Abbotsleigh Mews care home did everything possible to make the transition as easy as possible. We hope to continue providing your loved one with the best possible care.
My experience has been a pleasant one. The staff team are caring, compassionate and show great empathy when dealing with my sister and us as a family. We have been included in every part of her transition into the home and have made a good relationship with the staff. The staff throughout the home always greet you with a smile and it has a family atmosphere
Thank you for your lovely review. It is always nice to hear words like "caring, compassionate and show great empathy" being used to describe our care. We hope Abbotsleigh Mews care home did everything possible to make the transition as easy as possible and please let us know if there is anything we can do to make your sisters stay as comfortable as possible.
We had our ups & downs but generally they were very good with Mum. Mum really liked one lady, I feel this is because she is particularly caring and understanding and an asset to your care home.
We appreciate you taking the time to leave us your comments. It is always nice to hear from family members feeling like their loved one is cared for and looked after. It is always nice to hear words like "Caring" and "Understanding" being used to describe our Staff.
My mum lived here for eight years. At all times she was treated with kindness, respect, care and huge understanding. She was nurtured and greatly loved as was our family. She participated in a range of activities which included trips out, concerts, visits by various animals, making cards, colouring and attending parties. I thoroughly recommend it.
We appreciate you taking the time to leave us your comments. It is always nice to hear words like "Kindness" and "Respect" being used to describe our care. It is lovely to hear that your Mum enjoyed all the activities at the home. Hopefully you will go away from this feeling like your Mum received the best possible care.
I am always greeted with a smile. The staff are very polite and seem happy in what they do. My mum has settled in and is treated well. I am satisfied that she is well looked after, they have such patience with all the residents and its nice to know I don't need to worry at all!
Thank you for your kind comments. It is always wonderful to hear words like "Polite" being used to describe our staff and we are pleased to hear that your Mum has settled in well. We are very happy to hear you can feel at ease with your Mum in our care. We hope to continue providing your loved one with the best possible care.
Veyr good staff - 10 out of 10 care - communication is key. Myself and sister enjoy visiting Mum. The staff are very welcoming.
Thank you for your lovely comments. We are so glad to hear that you are impressed with the care and support provided by our staff at Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to make your Mum's stay as comfortable as possible.
Dad was in the care home due to his dementia. He didn't want to be there and put up quite a fight with his carers. They were so good with dad and treated him with care and respect. Eventually he settled and had a great relationship with the staff who could share his sense of humour. Dad passed away recently and the care and support they gave to him and his family during his end of life care was amazing and will not be forgotten by us.
Thank you for taking the time to leave your kind review. We are sorry for your loss. We are glad to hear Abbotsleigh Mews care home did everything possible to make the transition as easy as possible and we are very happy to hear you felt at ease with your Dad in our care. Hopefully you will go away from this feeling like your loved one received the best possible care.
My Mum has been in Abbotsleigh Mews for 3 weeks and she has Dementia, she is very frail and has just suffered a stroke (her verbal communication is now very difficult). She is in the nursing and Dementia unit. The Manager and staff are all compassionate, caring and empathetic with my Mum, who can sometimes be very difficult due to the dementia and frustration of being unable to communicate easily. My Mum is being very well cared for by the friendly and helpful staff, who are all amazing. It is with great relief, that my Mum has now finally found the care that she so desperately needs, when asking anything of the manager/staff nothing is too much trouble. There is no comparison with the care provided for my Mum in Abbotsleigh Mews compared to a previous care home where the care was very poor.
Thank you for your lovely review. It is always nice to hear from family members feeling like their loved one is cared for and looked after. It is always nice to hear words like "Compassionate" and "Caring" being used to describe our care. We hope to continue providing your loved one with the best possible care.
My Dad has been at Abbotsleigh since Dec 24. He has dementia and gets very anxious. The activity coordinators have gone above and beyond to reassure him and get him to be involved in activities, which is making him feel more settled.
Thank you for your kind words. We are very happy to hear you can feel at ease with your Dad in our care. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to make your dads stay as comfortable as possible.
I am happy with the care my mother is receiving under the circumstances her condition is not exactly reversing. She seems to be comfortable, the care home is warm and clean. The staff are polite and friendly. I do feel at ease any questions the staff are happy to answer.
Thank you for your lovely review. We are glad to help you and your family through such a difficult time. We hope to continue providing your loved one with the best possible care.
I know she is in good hands. Thank you everyone.
Thank you for your lovely review. We are glad to help you and your family through such a difficult time. It is always nice to hear from family members feeling like their loved one is cared for and looked after. We hope to continue providing your loved one with the best possible care.
We have never had any problems or worries regarding his care and treatment.
Although my father's illness has progressed the care he receives is excellent.
Thank you for your kind words. It is such a pleasure to know that your father has been a resident at Abbotsleigh Mews for the last 7 years and he is still happy, content and that you and your family are still impressed with the high standards of care provided. It is wonderful to hear that you have...
The staff at Abbotsleigh were amazing. My Dad was in Calvin House for 18 months where he was looked after so incredibly well. He especially enjoyed the dancing and the singing. When he was unwell, the staff rang me and kept us informed. As well as caring for Dad, the staff were an amazing support for me. Dad spent his last month in Macmillan House and they were also very caring and attentive. The care that they gave my dad and me during his last days was unbelievable and very personal. They showed my dad respect until he left the home, it was very touching and something I didn't expect. Thank you all so much.
Thank you for taking the time to leave your lovely review. We are sorry for your loss. We are glad to help you and your family through such a difficult time. It is always nice to hear from family members feeling like their loved one has been cared for and looked after and we hope that you all feel...
My experience of visiting Abbotsleigh Mews on numerous occasions is that whatever day or time I visit all of the staff are kind, thoughtful, caring, and very helpful. The residents are cared for and supported in so many different ways. Their care is amazing and so reassuring, my cousin despite her health condition is happy with the love and care that she receives. All of the staff are lovely and amazing.
Thank you for your lovely review. It is always nice to hear words like "Amazing" and "Reassuring" being used to describe our care. We are looking forward to see you again.
She is being wonderfully cared for under the exceptional leadership of the unit manager who is very supportive of the staff, residents, and from my experience the relatives of the residents.
BUPA is very lucky to have a manager of her quality.
I am very impressed and happy with the care home primarily due to the wonderful care being provided to my partner.
Thank you.
Thank you for your lovely review. It is always nice to hear words like "wonderfully cared for" being used to describe our care. We are very happy to hear you can feel at ease with your partner in our care. We will certainly pass your comments on to the manager. Please let us know if there is...
Mum has been in home for just over 2 years. Staff were very helpful in supporting us to receive funding so that Mum is able to continue to live in the place that is now her home. She particularly enjoys the gardening clubs and planting in the beautifully maintained grounds. It is very reassuring to know she is safe and well cared for.
Thank you for your kind words. We are pleased to hear that you feel reassured with your mum in our care and we are glad to know that she is safe and well cared for. It is lovely to know that your mum enjoys our gardening clubs and the grounds at Abbotsleigh Mews. Hopefully you will go away from this feeling like your loved one received the best possible care.
My dear mother was a resident at the home for 10 months June 2023 - March 2024, sadly now passed.
All staff gave their time, professional care and support. Always happy, which helped Mum get through her last journey.
Even when they were too busy, they would be there for her and also when we visited.
Nothing was ever too much trouble.
We made use of the private lounge, where we could entertain Mum on special occasions. (Which was kindly decorated).
The gardens are kept beautiful, Mum loved her gardens so this was special to her.
Entertainment was always fun, which helped Mum and others laugh and move, dance and sing.
I personally felt whenever I left her, Mum was in the best hands.
Thank you to all staff at Abbotsleigh.
Thank you for your lovely review. It is always nice to hear from family members feeling like their loved one is cared for and looked after. We are saddened to hear about your loss and send our deepest condolences. Thank you for choosing Abbotsleigh Mews for your stay.
Mum has been in Abbotsleigh Mews, Calvin House since January 2024. The staff all work so hard, constantly watching and attending to every resident's needs with genuine care. Mum is late stage dementia and is sometimes difficult in her behaviour and is often confused but I have never seen a harsh word or impatient action, well done Calvin House team.
Thank you for your lovely review. We are glad to help you and your family through such a difficult time and we hope Abbotsleigh Mews care home did everything possible to make the transition as easy as possible. It is always nice to hear from family members feeling like their loved one is cared for...
We have visited the care home on a few occasions. The dedication from the staff amazes me. The care that the residents receive is excellent. It's lovely to see and you come away knowing your loved one is being looked after and in the best way possible.
Thank you for taking the time to leave your review. It is always nice to hear from family members feeling like their loved one is cared for and looked after so well with us. We will certainly pass your comments on to the manager.
Regulatory Rating
Care Quality Commission (CQC) Rating
Date: 18 March 2025Good
- CaringGood
- EffectiveGood
- ResponsiveGood
- SafeGood
- Well-ledGood
Inspection ratings
We rate most services according to how safe, effective, caring, responsive and well-led they are, using four levels:
- Outstanding - The service is performing exceptionally well.
- Good - The service is performing well and meeting our expectations.
- Requires Improvement - The service isn't performing as well as it should and we have told the service how it must improve.
- Inadequate - The service is performing badly and we've taken action against the person or organisation that runs it.
- Not rated - we have not yet rated this area of the service, this is normally because the assessments we have carried out have been focused on other key questions.
Bed Vacancies
1 Bed Vacancy
Posted: 09 August 2026Spacious rooms available for short or long term nursing, residential or dementia care
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Awards / Recognitions (8)
- 30 Jan 2026Recipient: Bupa Care Homes
- 31 Jan 2025Recipient: Bupa Care Homes
- 28 Feb 2023Recipient: Bupa Care Homes
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