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so refreshing to see how dedicated the staff are, they always seem to go over and aboveJoanne M(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

The staff have been fantastic, they are all so caring and are looking after my mum incredibly wellKathy I(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

all of the staff are kind, thoughtful, caring, and very helpful.V C(Cousin of Resident/Service User)

so refreshing to see how dedicated the staff are, they always seem to go over and aboveJoanne M(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

The staff have been fantastic, they are all so caring and are looking after my mum incredibly wellKathy I(Daughter of Resident/Service User)

all of the staff are kind, thoughtful, caring, and very helpful.V C(Cousin of Resident/Service User)

Abbotsleigh Mews is a purpose-built care home, welcoming those in need of nursing, residential and dementia care.
Short stay, convalescence and palliative care also available.
The home is arranged into different houses for different types of care and is surrounded by beautiful landscaped grounds. Residents also have a choice of lounge and dining areas, a sensory room and activities rooms.
Registered nurses and well-trained care assistants know that it's important to...
Care Provided by Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home
Primary Care Categories
- Older Person Care
- Dementia
Length of Stay
- Permanent Care
- Respite Care
Care Types Provided
- Residential Care
- Nursing Care
- Dementia Residential Care
- Dementia Nursing Care
- For a maximum of 120 Service Users
Dementia Care TypesMild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
Mild Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "mild dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Memory problems such as misplacing items and not be able to recall recent events (however, in some forms of dementia a person's memory may be unchanged)
- Difficulties thinking through problems and planning, making decisions
- Language and communication issues such as finding it difficult to recall the appropriate word in a conversation or following a conversation
- Poor orientation, getting lost in areas previously familiar to them
- Difficulty judging distances (more falls than usual)
- Changes in their normal mood including anxiety and depression
- In certain types of dementia, personality and behaviour changes may be present alongside or instead of issues with memory or concentration.
Moderate Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "moderate dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Worsened memory problems. Not always recognising own family members and friends. Repeating the same questions over and over again
- Worsened language and communication issues, forgetting what they are saying mid-sentence. Not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- More frequent confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Advanced Dementia
Someone living with our definition of "severe dementia" might experience some or all of the following:
- Severe memory problems. Not recognising family members and friends. Not being able to recall their own name
- Severe language and communication issues, not being able to understand what someone else is saying
- Severe confusion, e.g. about the time of day or where they are, including their own home
- Apathy, depression and anxiety
- Believing things that aren't true (paranoia)
- Frequent hallucinations
- Lack of emotional control, quick to anger, fearfulness, sadness
- Loss of inhibition
- Difficulties sleeping or waking during the night and behaving as though it is daytime - loss of circadian rhythm.
Verbally or physically aggressive behaviour
If your loved one displays this type of behaviour you may need a care home that has specially trained staff. Verbal/physical aggression is often defined:
- Consistent shouting and screaming
- Verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
How we define Dementia Care Types
- Mild Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
- Advanced/Complex Dementia
Other Care Provided
- Parkinson's Disease
- Palliative / End of Life Care
- Convalescent Care
Facilities
- Own Furniture if required
- Close to Local shops
- Near Public Transport
- Lift
- Wheelchair Access
- Gardens
- Residents Kitchenette
- Phone Point in own room
- Television point in own room
Funding & Fees
Weekly Charges per Person
Pricing is subject to an assessment of care needs and the room chosen. There’s no need for your loved one to have Bupa health insurance, our Care Home is open to everyone. Please contact us for more information.
The price(s) shown are provided by the care home. Contact Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home for full pricing details and T&Cs.
Contact Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home to confirm what's included and get a personalised quote:
Funding Types Accepted
- Self-Funding (Private)
- Local Authority with Top-up
- Local Authority
- NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)
Support you may be entitled to
- If you chose a care home based in England, you may be eligible for NHS Funded Nursing Care (FNC), which helps cover the cost of nursing. This is worth £267.68 per week and is usually paid directly to the care home.
Good to Know
Group / Owner
- Bupa Care Homes
- Private Owned
Person in charge
- Christen San Pedro (Home Manager)
Local Authority / Social Services
Admission Information
- Ages 65+
Care Home Design/Build
- Purpose Built: Yes
Room Information
- Single Rooms (120)
Visiting
- The bus stop outside will soon take you into Sidcup, just a mile away. Within easy reach are Chislehurst Caves and lovely walks at Scadbury and Danson parks. The Royal Observatory Greenwich, Canary Wharf and the O2 are also less than ten miles away.
Parking
- Lots of on-site parking available.
Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home Reviews (124)
Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home has a Review Score of 9.6 (9.631) out of 10, based on 35 reviews in the last 2 years.
Over all time Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home has 124 reviews.
I have nothing but praise and admiration for the dedication of all the staff and the great care and love they give my wife and other residents in Calvin House and other parts of Abbotsleigh. I am particularly grateful for what they have done for residents, despite the personal risks they have faced, and for their concern and support for relatives and friends of residents during the stressful period of lockdown due to the COVID-19 pandemic.
Thank you for your understanding during such a difficult time. We really appreciate you taking the time to leave us such lovely comments.
The care and attention have been second to none and have always felt that she was treated as if she was their own mother.
All of the staff have shown concern and real care.
The cleaners were polite, friendly and always respected the resident's privacy and maintained the rooms and common areas to a very high standard of hygiene.
The tea ladies were very friendly and managed to brighten the day for residents and visitors alike. There were always homemade cakes available, and they always made time to chat and make sure you were alright.
The main caring staff paid great attention to everyone, and ensured that all medications were taken properly, residents were helped as much as they wanted or needed with dressing and washing. Any problems were reported immediately to the family who was involved in agreeing with the best action to take.
I wouldn't hesitate to recommend Abbotsleigh.
We really appreciate you taking the time to leave us such lovely comments, thank you.
We can't thank the staff enough for the outstanding care and kindness you showed to my husband over the last ten months. Each staff member went over and above in helping him to settle in. They were patient, kind and compassionate, respectful at all times and they showed genuine love for him. I would like to name each member of staff personally but there isn't enough space. There are some exceptional people working here.
Thank you for trusting us with your husbands care. We really appreciate the kind words.
My mother-in-law has been a resident since August 2018, but deteriorated rapidly over the last few weeks. The staff have been very good during this period when my mother-in-law started to refuse food and drink; they tried everything to persuade her to eat and drink, but to no avail. My mother-in-law was difficult to manage at times, but we cannot speak highly enough about the standard of care and attention she received, particularly over the last few weeks, until her passing.
Thank you for the kind words, we really appreciate it.
All the staff at Abbotsleigh Mews are kind and caring. They have gone out of their way to make sure that my, nearly 95 year old, father settles in well to the home and feels safe and happy. The staff have also taken great care of me, which is so kind. Well done - keep up the good work in your spotlessly clean care home.
Thank you for trusting us with your fathers care. We are very happy to hear he is happy and settled.
I find room too small, although ensuite much smaller than other homes that I have stayed in. (I cannot walk). Not much space for clothes or for personal items on bedside drawers. No room for bookshelves apart from small beside case on bedside drawers or for DVD player. Breakfast very good, cereals and cooked items, eggs, bacon, sausages, toasted cheese (which I like particularly). Lunches not to my liking and lack variety. Staff, from manager down excellent, very friendly and helpful.
Thank you for taking the time to leave your review. We will discuss your feedback with the home’s manager to help us continually improve our service.
I'm very happy with mum's care. I've never been aware of anything to raise any concerns. The staff are all very pleasant and helpful. Mum seems happy. That's good. I can leave her happy knowing that she is in very good hands.
Thank you for taking the time to leave your review. We are very happy to hear you can feel at ease with your mother in our care.
They are always looking for ways to engage my father in his interests singing and playing the music that he likes a first-class home.
We really appreciate you taking the time to leave such a lovely review.
The staff always have a smile on their face and nothing is too much trouble. There are many activities for the residents and families to join in if they wish to do so! The home is kept clean and consistently decorated for special occasions I.e Valentine's/Easter - It always looks colourful and welcoming.
Thank you for you lovely comments. Our resident’s health and well being is an absolute priority, therefore we always appreciate feedback from families and friend of residents.
She received the best possible care from the wonderful staff of McMillan House led by the fantastic sister.
The compassionate care my mother received made our last few months with Mum more bearable for us, her family.
Thank you can never fully express how we feel.
Thank you for such a kind review. We are saddened to hear about your loss, please accept our sincerest condolences.
My mother was happy in the home. She was safe and well cared for. The activity organiser got her to partake and go to the lounge every day. The gardens are spectacular and she often enjoyed an afternoon out there in the sunshine with a cup of tea. There was never any 'old people's home' smell about the place, although her room needed an update.
Thank you for taking the time to leave your feedback. We are very glad to hear you could feel at ease with you mother in our care. Sometimes all it takes is a little nudge to bring out the active side of someone and is very nice to hear she could enjoy herself at Abbotlseigh Mews.
My mother is currently spending some respite time at Abbotsleigh Mews following a broken ankle. She is 86 and incredibly active usually. Our biggest concerns were for her health and social needs. We really need not have worried, the nursing staff are 100% professional and dedicated and the events manager arranges bespoke activities each day. From the moment we made contact with Abbotsleigh Mews, my mother's recovery began. In the short time she has been there, all of her fears of ever having to reside in a care home, no longer exist. All of the staff have gone that extra mile to make my mother comfortable, relaxed and happy. Thank you very much.
Thank you for taking the time to leave your review. We are pleased to hear about your positive experience and appreciate your comments of our home. We will certainly share your feedback with the home's manager. The Bupa Customer Care Team.
The facility is secure and safe for residents.
Thank you for your review. We are pleased to hear about your positive experience and will share your comments with the home’s manager. The Bupa Customer Care Team.
On visiting, I found the staff very welcoming, all with smiling faces. The preparation leading up to Christmas was great. Lots of decorations etc. There is always plenty of staff around and they really seem to care about the health and welfare of the residents. You feel a sense of care and interest in the welfare of every resident.
Thank you for your review. We are pleased to hear about your positive experience and appreciate your comments of our home and will share your comments with the home’s manager. The Bupa Customer Care Team
It proved to be all of those good things and more. Our dad was very happy there. He received excellent care, love and support. He was treated respectfully and at the end with dignity. My brother and I can't thank the staff enough for caring and supporting our dad. Thank you
Thank you for your review. We are pleased to hear about your positive experience and appreciate your comments of our home and will share your comments with the home’s manager. The Bupa Customer Care Team
Staff pleasant, helpful, considerate - all as usual. Just a minor problem, also found sometimes before, is that my friend does not always have the daily paper she pays for, but the one from the day before and when I ask staff for help they cannot find the correct issue - this is always late afternoon when I visit. Granted she only holds the paper without really reading it as far as we can tell nowadays, but this visitor would appreciate it for myself and to show that my friend is not being disregarded.
Thank you for your review of Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home. We are pleased to hear that you find the staff pleasant and helpful, and appreciate your comments regarding your friends newspaper. We will share your comments with the home's manager. The Bupa Customer Care Team
My Mum has Alzheimer's and we have been using Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home, Sidcup for her respite care since April 2018, using both Smythe House and more recently Calvin House. From the beginning, we have been impressed by the friendly and helpful staff in Admin and each House. Following Mum's assessment, she spent two periods at Smythe (conventional residential) and the last one in Calvin (dementia residential). We cannot praise ALL the staff enough for the care they have given Mum, providing her with a safe and comfortable environment and us with peace of mind knowing she is being well cared for. Thank you Abbotsleigh Mews.
Thank you for your review of Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home. We are pleased to hear about your positive experience with the home and appreciate your comments regarding the staff providing a safe and comfortable environment for your mum. We will share your comments with the homes manager. The Bupa Customer Care Team.
On behalf of my father and I, we would like to take the opportunity to express how very grateful I am for the care given to my mother. Her accommodation and the care home decor is very satisfactory.
The catering at Calvin House is of quite a high standard and the portions are always plentiful which is reassuring.
I am very pleased to say the decoration on the unit is always well maintained and the work on the room out to the garden by the garden team is really lovely and aesthetically pleasing for residents, families and staff.The gardens at the Centre are well maintained as is the garden at Calvin House. In the summer months mum enjoys walking through the garden looking at the various plants and flowers which she has always enjoyed throughout her life.
The staff team have always acted in a caring, sensitive and professional way and we would like them to know they are very much appreciated by all the family.
Thank you to each and every one of you.
Thank you for your review of Abbotsleigh Mews Care Home. We are pleased to hear about your positive experience with the home and appreciate your comments regarding your mum's care, accommodation and food being of a high quality. We will share your comments with the home's manager. The Bupa Customer Care Team.
I am so pleased I chose this home for my mum. I would recommend 100%
Thank you for your review of Abbosleigh Mews care home, we are pleased to hear that you are happy with your Mother staying with us. We appreciate your comments on the care home and the staff working there and will share your experience with the care homes manager. The Bupa Customer Care Team.
Can only say this my home and a happy one too. When one asks for help or advice, it is given. For that I am grateful.
Thank you for your review of Abbosleigh Mews care home, we are pleased to hear that you are happy here. We are glad that you have had a positive experience and will share your comments with the care home managers. The Bupa Customer Care Team.
Regulatory Rating
Care Quality Commission (CQC) Rating
Date: 18 March 2025Good
- CaringGood
- EffectiveGood
- ResponsiveGood
- SafeGood
- Well-ledGood
Inspection ratings
We rate most services according to how safe, effective, caring, responsive and well-led they are, using four levels:
- Outstanding - The service is performing exceptionally well.
- Good - The service is performing well and meeting our expectations.
- Requires Improvement - The service isn't performing as well as it should and we have told the service how it must improve.
- Inadequate - The service is performing badly and we've taken action against the person or organisation that runs it.
- Not rated - we have not yet rated this area of the service, this is normally because the assessments we have carried out have been focused on other key questions.
Bed Vacancies
1 Bed Vacancy
Posted: 09 August 2026Spacious rooms available for short or long term nursing, residential or dementia care
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- 30 Jan 2026Recipient: Bupa Care Homes
- 31 Jan 2025Recipient: Bupa Care Homes
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